Aunt-in-law isolates herself from family after her siblings-in-law unintentionally leave her out of a family decision concerning their mother’s housing situation: ‘Now we’re stuck in this cold silence’

When the matriarch of a family starts thinking about moving to a home more suitable for their physical needs, especially when they are coming into old age, it’s important to let them know that they’re well-supported. Too much support could cause more harm than good, however, because no elderly person wants to feel coddled and …
Seguir leyendo Aunt-in-law isolates herself from family after her siblings-in-law unintentionally leave her out of a family decision concerning their mother’s housing situation: ‘Now we’re stuck in this cold silence’

Roommate fails to pay her share of rent and ghosts her housemate for over 2 months, so the housemate donates her belongings and mistakenly gets rid of a family heirloom: ‘It all could have been avoided if she had tried to communicate with me’

Living with an entitled, inconsiderate roommate is a rite of passage for any twenty-something trying to find their footing in this world. If you’re just starting out in your career or are currently in college away from home, you’re probably going to be living with a bunch of roommates. This is what primes you for …
Seguir leyendo Roommate fails to pay her share of rent and ghosts her housemate for over 2 months, so the housemate donates her belongings and mistakenly gets rid of a family heirloom: ‘It all could have been avoided if she had tried to communicate with me’

Pregnant 28-year-old insists that her roommate move out of their 2 bedroom apartment to make room for her baby: ‘We are both on the lease and I have no intention of moving out’

It’s essential to consider living with roommates as a temporary arrangement, as you never know what will happen with them. They might decide to move in with their boyfriend on a whim three months into the lease, forcing you to find a subletter as soon as possible. They might have a major, tragic event happen …
Seguir leyendo Pregnant 28-year-old insists that her roommate move out of their 2 bedroom apartment to make room for her baby: ‘We are both on the lease and I have no intention of moving out’

Woman wants to use neighbor’s balcony they pay $75/month extra for, calls them ‘elitist’ for refusing: ‘You should share. Not everyone has your luck’

Privacy is important, especially when you live in a big city. There is so much going on in the world that when you come home you just need a place to relax. You don’t want anybody bothering you or anyone in your space when you get home. You want to be able to shut your …
Seguir leyendo Woman wants to use neighbor’s balcony they pay $75/month extra for, calls them ‘elitist’ for refusing: ‘You should share. Not everyone has your luck’

27-year-old freeloader steals food from her 20-year-old roommate, calls her dramatic for insisting that she stop eating her food: ‘I’m barely scraping by myself, and replacing what she takes is killing my budget’

Properly sharing is a huge part of living with roommates. You have to share a bathroom, a fridge, a living room, and that’s only the beginning. On some level, I think you should be sharing common household items with your roommates. In my house, I’m the one who buys the laundry detergent, one of my …
Seguir leyendo 27-year-old freeloader steals food from her 20-year-old roommate, calls her dramatic for insisting that she stop eating her food: ‘I’m barely scraping by myself, and replacing what she takes is killing my budget’

‘I don’t appreciate randos at my house’: Woman house-sitting for free lets friend inside for 5 minutes to pick up food, homeowner freaks out on her

House-sitting for someone else can be a tricky job. If they’re chill, then you’re chill. You can relax and not worry about if they’re going to notice that you moved one of their forks. But some folks are weird about their dwellings. They’re protective over their spaces, whether they know how to enforce that well …
Seguir leyendo ‘I don’t appreciate randos at my house’: Woman house-sitting for free lets friend inside for 5 minutes to pick up food, homeowner freaks out on her

‘We don’t have a signed agreement since we’re friends’: Inconsiderate roommate lets her family of 4 stay in homeowners house for 3 weeks, refuses to pay utilities like he asked

I have lived with friends for 3.5 years of my life. As far as I’m concerned, it’s a great way of living with roommates and far superior to shacking up with a bunch of randos. When you live with people you know and love, you feel responsible for ensuring their living space is a happy, …
Seguir leyendo ‘We don’t have a signed agreement since we’re friends’: Inconsiderate roommate lets her family of 4 stay in homeowners house for 3 weeks, refuses to pay utilities like he asked

A Giant Box Full of Moving Memes for Folks Getting by With One Set of Silverware and a Deflated Air Mattress

Moving places isn’t easy. Besides the obvious packing up your entire life, the mental stress of going through everything you own and deciding if it’s worth keeping is the worst. Why am I up until 2 AM reading my middle school diary when I should be making sure my glassware is wrapped in bubble wrap? …
Seguir leyendo A Giant Box Full of Moving Memes for Folks Getting by With One Set of Silverware and a Deflated Air Mattress

40-year-old parents leave their 3-year-old’s stroller in front of their neighbors door for months, mom gets her mom to yell at the neighbor after she reported them to property management: ‘Her mother berated me on speaker phone’

It’s common for residents of small apartment buildings in New York to store some of their stuff in the hallway. My neighbor stores his bike against the railing in the hallway between our door and the stairs upstairs, and it’s not a nuisance to us or the people in apartment 3. Sometimes, you don’t have …
Seguir leyendo 40-year-old parents leave their 3-year-old’s stroller in front of their neighbors door for months, mom gets her mom to yell at the neighbor after she reported them to property management: ‘Her mother berated me on speaker phone’

‘This poor animal’: Cat owner leaves cat at home alone for 3 weeks, roommate threatens to break her lease 8 months early

The wonderful thing about cats is that they don’t require much from us. Most of them love to keep to themselves and will lash out if you try to bother them. They have strict boundaries, and when you cross them, they will let you know (I have the scratch marks to prove it). You don’t …
Seguir leyendo ‘This poor animal’: Cat owner leaves cat at home alone for 3 weeks, roommate threatens to break her lease 8 months early