Family members expect stay-at-home parent to watch their newborn without asking them first: ‘You want me to give up my free time, but you won’t?’

The holiday season uproots something in all of us; What is uprooted is dependent on a mixture of your nature and external stimuli that prompt you to unravel. Only family can manage to break us down in the way that they do, so it’s only right that we at least let them know they are …
Seguir leyendo Family members expect stay-at-home parent to watch their newborn without asking them first: ‘You want me to give up my free time, but you won’t?’

Daughter-in-law refuses to spend Christmas with her mother-in-law because she forces her to cook, clean, and serve the family when she visits: ‘It’s not a vacation for me at all.’

She’s not their servant. There’s nothing fun about being a guest at someone else’s house and being expected to cook, clean, and take care of the home as if it’s your own. There are some things you can do to be a good house guest, like bringing a gift for the hosts or helping with …
Seguir leyendo Daughter-in-law refuses to spend Christmas with her mother-in-law because she forces her to cook, clean, and serve the family when she visits: ‘It’s not a vacation for me at all.’

72-year-old claims his 35 to 45-year-old kids don’t work as hard as he did, despite him receiving $1500 a month since he was 18 years old from a trust fund: ‘They want everything handed to them without effort.’

He can’t even acknowledge that he’s had a considerable boost in life that has nothing to do with him working hard. It’s funny to get financial advice from somebody with a completely different economic background. If someone has their college paid for by their parents and receives financial support from them into adulthood, they are …
Seguir leyendo 72-year-old claims his 35 to 45-year-old kids don’t work as hard as he did, despite him receiving $1500 a month since he was 18 years old from a trust fund: ‘They want everything handed to them without effort.’

18-year-old drops hyphenated last name belonging to his stepfather, his mother tells him she’s deeply ashamed of his decision: ‘It was forced on me’

When you lose a parent, it feels like a piece of you was stolen, never to be found again. The void that a parent’s passing leaves in your life is something immeasurable and, quite frankly, unbearable. It feels criminal when the sun is shining, when you smile in a world they no longer exist in. …
Seguir leyendo 18-year-old drops hyphenated last name belonging to his stepfather, his mother tells him she’s deeply ashamed of his decision: ‘It was forced on me’

35-year-old single woman skips Thanksgiving after her mom calls her an embarrassment for not having a husband and kids by now: ‘Everyone else has a family. Doesn’t that make you lonely?’

She’s better off happy and alone than miserable and married to a loser. Treating one child better or worse than another is unjustifiable in 99% of cases. I’m not talking about garden-variety variations, where parents are slightly closer to one child because of common interests, but don’t give that child unearned privileges just because they …
Seguir leyendo 35-year-old single woman skips Thanksgiving after her mom calls her an embarrassment for not having a husband and kids by now: ‘Everyone else has a family. Doesn’t that make you lonely?’

‘We didn’t serve ribeye and caviar’: In-laws scold couple for contributing supposed ‘over the top’ dishes to the family’s Thanksgiving dinners

A Thanksgiving meal is supposed to be special in whatever way you and your loved ones see fit. Despite your loved ones’ thirst for drama, political disagreements, and inability to keep the sound level below 110 decibels, it’s all worth it for that harmonious sit-down meal where everyone can’t speak because they’re stuffing their faces …
Seguir leyendo ‘We didn’t serve ribeye and caviar’: In-laws scold couple for contributing supposed ‘over the top’ dishes to the family’s Thanksgiving dinners

Mom of a 6-year-old with 1 on the way begs her husband not to invite her mother-in-law on their vacation after mother-in-law moved into their 2 bedroom home with her 4 dogs: ‘I really just wanted a trip away from her before this baby comes’

There are circumstances in which intergenerational homes are both necessary and beneficial. If a young couple or an elderly person does not have enough income to support themselves in their own place, living with family can be either a temporary or a permanent solution, depending on the arrangement between the family and the person paying …
Seguir leyendo Mom of a 6-year-old with 1 on the way begs her husband not to invite her mother-in-law on their vacation after mother-in-law moved into their 2 bedroom home with her 4 dogs: ‘I really just wanted a trip away from her before this baby comes’

‘Actions are loud’: Parents of tantrum-throwing iPad-kid toddler kick sister and her husband out during a family trip, refusing to reimburse them for nearly $10k

Parenting nowadays seems to amount to tablets, television, and a toddler who will throw a fit if they can’t access the first two in this list. On the one hand, raising a child can be a challenging task. You must teach them how to exist in the world as a human, because even the most …
Seguir leyendo ‘Actions are loud’: Parents of tantrum-throwing iPad-kid toddler kick sister and her husband out during a family trip, refusing to reimburse them for nearly $10k

17 y/o son refuses to be a part of his estranged father’s new family after losing his mother: ‘I was forced to be [in the family] against my will’

When you lose a loved one, finding a way to bounce back is challenging. You look for them in everyone else and become frustrated when nobody lives up to what they were. We live in a complicated, senseless world, and trying to make sense of grief is moot. Grief is not linear, and those who …
Seguir leyendo 17 y/o son refuses to be a part of his estranged father’s new family after losing his mother: ‘I was forced to be [in the family] against my will’

Daughter refuses to attend Thanksgiving at her mother’s girlfriend’s apartment after months of emotional turmoil: ‘Feels so odd’

The holidays are supposed to be spent with the people we love, so why would we attend a celebration where we feel we’re unwelcome? Toxic family dynamics often take center stage during the holiday season. Mom’s boyfriend’s anger issues are exercised during the mashing of the potatoes, cousin Larry finds out what the Thanksgiving «walk» …
Seguir leyendo Daughter refuses to attend Thanksgiving at her mother’s girlfriend’s apartment after months of emotional turmoil: ‘Feels so odd’