Employee gets his wages garnished because someone with a similar name to him owes child support: ‘How can they just start taking money from me without any verification as to whether the child is mine?’

How does a mistake like this happen? A cocky person who has never faced any consequences for their poor decisions might think they’re above man-made systems and processes, such as the court system. A deadbeat parent might expect that if they’ve evaded paying child support for their kid’s entire childhood, they won’t have to pay …
Seguir leyendo Employee gets his wages garnished because someone with a similar name to him owes child support: ‘How can they just start taking money from me without any verification as to whether the child is mine?’

Dad of 4 children keeps paying Mom child support even after 3 kids turn 18, Mom decides to stay silent and take the money, until he finally discovers: ‘You did nothing’

Who’s at fault here, Dad, who didn’t notice, or Mom, who didn’t say anything? Have you ever stood in front of a cashier after you just gave them money for a purchase, and after they gave you back your change, you realized they gave you more than they should have? Like, they gave you a …
Seguir leyendo Dad of 4 children keeps paying Mom child support even after 3 kids turn 18, Mom decides to stay silent and take the money, until he finally discovers: ‘You did nothing’

Deadbeat dad owes his ex-wife $85K in child support, pressures her to stop payments because their 4 kids are 23-31 years old: ‘I never received child support while they were young, ever.’

He needs to give her every cent she is owed for raising all four of his children on her own. It’s so wild when a grown adult never expects their lifelong habits to bite them in the rear end. If you ate horribly and never exercised for your entire adult life, you shouldn’t be surprised …
Seguir leyendo Deadbeat dad owes his ex-wife $85K in child support, pressures her to stop payments because their 4 kids are 23-31 years old: ‘I never received child support while they were young, ever.’

Aunt asks her brother and sister-in-law for child support after raising their 17-year-old daughter since she was 3: ‘Neither of them provide financial support.’

She has waited for 14 years, and she’s not waiting any longer!  You would think that at this point, it would be common knowledge that becoming a parent is a big responsibility that shouldn’t be taken lightly. It’s not something that you should do because there’s nothing else better to do, especially if you’re not …
Seguir leyendo Aunt asks her brother and sister-in-law for child support after raising their 17-year-old daughter since she was 3: ‘Neither of them provide financial support.’

Entitled mom uses her kid’s child support money on herself for years, then expects kid to pay back an $8k Parent PLUS loan with interest: ‘I paid my way through school’

A parent’s duty in a child’s life is to provide for them by whatever means necessary. Becoming a parent is an important milestone that should be carefully considered before attempting to make it come to fruition. The worst part of many people’s childhoods is realizing that your parent really doesn’t want to be one, and …
Seguir leyendo Entitled mom uses her kid’s child support money on herself for years, then expects kid to pay back an $8k Parent PLUS loan with interest: ‘I paid my way through school’

27-year-old fathers 4 children by 4 mothers, his parents praise him for being responsible: ‘I take care of my kids. None of their moms have to struggle.’

He’s one of the least responsible men on earth. You would think that at this point, it would be common knowledge that becoming a parent is a big responsibility that shouldn’t be taken lightly. It’s not something that you should do because there’s nothing else better to do, especially if you’re not in a stable …
Seguir leyendo 27-year-old fathers 4 children by 4 mothers, his parents praise him for being responsible: ‘I take care of my kids. None of their moms have to struggle.’

Mom exposes deadbeat ex when mother-in-law accuses her of misusing child support for 8-year-old son: ‘My ex didn’t make a single payment’

A couple going through a breakup when they have kids together is always more complicated than when it happens without. It means that they have individuals other than themselves to think about, although that appears to be the last thing on the minds of some parents in this situation. From custody agreements to child support, …
Seguir leyendo Mom exposes deadbeat ex when mother-in-law accuses her of misusing child support for 8-year-old son: ‘My ex didn’t make a single payment’

Uncle sends money to the mother of his brother’s illegitimate child, exposes him as a deadbeat to their extended family: ‘I’ll never let him hear the end of it’

There’s always a question of how much you should mind your own business. I’m certainly not going to eavesdrop on a stranger’s conversation, pass a judgment, and interject to tell them what I think. I would definitely do those first two things, but the third is crossing a line.  There’s an art to getting involved …
Seguir leyendo Uncle sends money to the mother of his brother’s illegitimate child, exposes him as a deadbeat to their extended family: ‘I’ll never let him hear the end of it’

Dad gifts 24-year-old kid an ‘inheritance’, only to later reveal it is actually the child support he refused to pay mom for years: ‘He hoarded the money and pretended to be the good guy’

Have you ever gotten a really generous and exciting gift, only to find out that what was presented as a ‘gift’ to you was actually something that was already yours to begin with? My older sister used to do it to me a lot. She would visit our grandma, for example, and our grandma would …
Seguir leyendo Dad gifts 24-year-old kid an ‘inheritance’, only to later reveal it is actually the child support he refused to pay mom for years: ‘He hoarded the money and pretended to be the good guy’

Wife flips out when she receives $175 of $7,000 tax refund because of husband’s unpaid child support: ‘He told me I should be grateful’

There is no getting around the fact that if your partner already has kids before you get together, it is going to make the relationship more complicated. Anybody in this scenario has to sit down and consider if they are willing to take on the duties and struggles that come with being a stepparent, for …
Seguir leyendo Wife flips out when she receives $175 of $7,000 tax refund because of husband’s unpaid child support: ‘He told me I should be grateful’