He’s one of the least responsible men on earth.

You would think that at this point, it would be common knowledge that becoming a parent is a big responsibility that shouldn’t be taken lightly. It’s not something that you should do because there’s nothing else better to do, especially if you’re not in a stable family unit with the person you’re having a baby with. There are a ton of young couples who might not feel ready to have a baby, but they get their act together, get married, and work their tucuses off to make sure their little accident has a good life. It’s not easy to be a good parent, but if you find yourself in the situation where you’re going to have a baby out of wedlock, you absolutely should not plan on having another kid before you’re married and financially stable enough to support two kids. Even if you love your Oops Baby, that’s not a pattern you want to repeat again and again. It doesn’t bode well for the children involved.