Employee gets his wages garnished because someone with a similar name to him owes child support: ‘How can they just start taking money from me without any verification as to whether the child is mine?’

How does a mistake like this happen? A cocky person who has never faced any consequences for their poor decisions might think they’re above man-made systems and processes, such as the court system. A deadbeat parent might expect that if they’ve evaded paying child support for their kid’s entire childhood, they won’t have to pay …
Seguir leyendo Employee gets his wages garnished because someone with a similar name to him owes child support: ‘How can they just start taking money from me without any verification as to whether the child is mine?’

Deadbeat dad owes his ex-wife $85K in child support, pressures her to stop payments because their 4 kids are 23-31 years old: ‘I never received child support while they were young, ever.’

He needs to give her every cent she is owed for raising all four of his children on her own. It’s so wild when a grown adult never expects their lifelong habits to bite them in the rear end. If you ate horribly and never exercised for your entire adult life, you shouldn’t be surprised …
Seguir leyendo Deadbeat dad owes his ex-wife $85K in child support, pressures her to stop payments because their 4 kids are 23-31 years old: ‘I never received child support while they were young, ever.’

Sister-in-law tells expecting 23-year-old single mother of 3 that she’s selfish for having another baby: ‘She has a 4-year-old, a 2-year-old, and an 8-month-old; the older two are from a deadbeat.’

There is no world where this situation ends well. The sister-in-law can either choose to be a part of it or sleep easily knowing that she didn’t enable her partner’s sisters’ bad behavior. 

Girlfriend breaks up with her 34-year-old boyfriend because he hasn’t seen his daughter since April of 2025: ‘He sold himself as a great present dad, and I bought it.’

She’s smart for leaving now, because the same thing that happened to his ex-girlfriend would happen to her. It’s important to look at people’s dating history before you seriously consider a future with them. I’m not saying you should reject anyone without a perfect track record, but there are some things you should consider. If …
Seguir leyendo Girlfriend breaks up with her 34-year-old boyfriend because he hasn’t seen his daughter since April of 2025: ‘He sold himself as a great present dad, and I bought it.’

Mom exposes deadbeat ex when mother-in-law accuses her of misusing child support for 8-year-old son: ‘My ex didn’t make a single payment’

A couple going through a breakup when they have kids together is always more complicated than when it happens without. It means that they have individuals other than themselves to think about, although that appears to be the last thing on the minds of some parents in this situation. From custody agreements to child support, …
Seguir leyendo Mom exposes deadbeat ex when mother-in-law accuses her of misusing child support for 8-year-old son: ‘My ex didn’t make a single payment’

Uncle sends money to the mother of his brother’s illegitimate child, exposes him as a deadbeat to their extended family: ‘I’ll never let him hear the end of it’

There’s always a question of how much you should mind your own business. I’m certainly not going to eavesdrop on a stranger’s conversation, pass a judgment, and interject to tell them what I think. I would definitely do those first two things, but the third is crossing a line.  There’s an art to getting involved …
Seguir leyendo Uncle sends money to the mother of his brother’s illegitimate child, exposes him as a deadbeat to their extended family: ‘I’ll never let him hear the end of it’

24-year-old refuses to forgive her deadbeat dad who hasn’t seen her since she was 10 years old: ‘He messaged me, said he misses his little girl and wants to reconnect.’

One of the best things about being an adult is that you don’t have to have a relationship with anyone you don’t want a relationship with. I’m not advocating cutting off your parents for no good reason or refusing to maintain any friendships because they’re an inconvenience to you. Many relationships in life are worth …
Seguir leyendo 24-year-old refuses to forgive her deadbeat dad who hasn’t seen her since she was 10 years old: ‘He messaged me, said he misses his little girl and wants to reconnect.’

Deadbeat dad uses his wife’s tax return to pay $7000 worth of unpaid child support without telling her: ‘I thought he was making regular monthly payments. We were expecting a refund, but only $175 was deposited.’

There are so many things that can go wrong while doing your taxes. If you screw up any of the little boxes or say that you made money in Yonkers when you didn’t you can literally go to jail. Luckily, we can march on down to H&R Block and ask them to do our taxes …
Seguir leyendo Deadbeat dad uses his wife’s tax return to pay $7000 worth of unpaid child support without telling her: ‘I thought he was making regular monthly payments. We were expecting a refund, but only $175 was deposited.’

Deadbeat dad asks ex-wife to forgive $65,000 worth of child support he has owed since his daughter turned 18 20 years ago, mom laughs in his face: ‘He’s been under a court order to pay me child support since September 1987 and has paid nothing’

It’s so wild when a 60-something-year-old adult expects their lifelong habits never to bite them in the rear end. If you ate horribly your whole life and never exercised, you shouldn’t be surprised when you have health issues when you age. While the biological clock waits for no man, you might think you’re above man-made …
Seguir leyendo Deadbeat dad asks ex-wife to forgive $65,000 worth of child support he has owed since his daughter turned 18 20 years ago, mom laughs in his face: ‘He’s been under a court order to pay me child support since September 1987 and has paid nothing’

Deadbeat dad’s new baby mama shows up unannounced to his 18-year-old daughters house, begs her to have a relationship with her half-brother: ‘There was such a deep attempt to shame [me], all the mentions of her child being innocent’

It’s so wild when 40-something-year-old adults expect their children to pick up their slack for them. If you’ve ever been the victim of a deadbeat parent saying, «The phone works both ways,» I think you should be allowed to flip any table you want and throw a cherry pie in that parent’s face for good …
Seguir leyendo Deadbeat dad’s new baby mama shows up unannounced to his 18-year-old daughters house, begs her to have a relationship with her half-brother: ‘There was such a deep attempt to shame [me], all the mentions of her child being innocent’