Aunt refuses to split a family vacation rental equally after her sister insists everyone should subsidize her 6 children: ‘She implied she’s a better parent than me’

Should every family pay their own way on vacation? I have two sisters, and while neither of them has kids, I can still understand why this kind of disagreement happens. Family vacations always sound simple when you’re throwing ideas around in a group chat, but the second money enters the conversation, everyone starts looking at …
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15-year-old twins find family Nintendo hidden in their little sister’s backpack after dad does nothing, secretly reclaim it to play Tomodachi Life and Persona 5: ‘We haven’t told anyone’

A teenage girl and her twin sister pooled their money to buy Tomodachi Life and Rhythm Heaven Groove to play on the family Nintendo console. One of them bought Persona 5 herself. They agreed to share the console, alternating access, four days each during eight days. Everything sounded good until the little sister wanted to …
Seguir leyendo 15-year-old twins find family Nintendo hidden in their little sister’s backpack after dad does nothing, secretly reclaim it to play Tomodachi Life and Persona 5: ‘We haven’t told anyone’

Brother spends hours baking cake for sister’s birthday, she tells everyone it’s store-bought: ‘I packed up what was left of the cake and took it home’

Why would she lie in this situation? There are lots of reasons to bend the truth. It’s not good to lie regularly, but who hasn’t fibbed to get out of an awkward conversation? Sometimes it’s just easier to tell a little white lie instead of getting into the whole messy truth. I am notorious for …
Seguir leyendo Brother spends hours baking cake for sister’s birthday, she tells everyone it’s store-bought: ‘I packed up what was left of the cake and took it home’

24-year-old disinvites 27-year-old sister from barbecue since she repeatedly makes fun of her: ‘My mom is upset saying im creating family drama over “a few jokes”’

Should you be obligated to invite your family to everything? Sometimes you just don’t get along with someone, and it takes a lot to put that aside. That’s what was happening to this pair of sisters who just couldn’t see eye to eye no matter how hard they tried. It didn’t help that one of …
Seguir leyendo 24-year-old disinvites 27-year-old sister from barbecue since she repeatedly makes fun of her: ‘My mom is upset saying im creating family drama over “a few jokes”’

16-year-old tells her mom she makes her feel like an orphan because she constantly favors her 8-year-old stepdaughter: ‘I lost dad and then I lost her to her stepdaughter’

We’re all familiar with the tale of Cinderella and her stepfamily. Once her dad passed away, her life was overtaken by the tyranny of a woman who had no interest in taking on a genuine parental role in her stepdaughter’s life. Stories like this can give stepmothers a bad rep for little kids who have …
Seguir leyendo 16-year-old tells her mom she makes her feel like an orphan because she constantly favors her 8-year-old stepdaughter: ‘I lost dad and then I lost her to her stepdaughter’

19-year-old school graduate finds out older sister spent her college fund on her step-children’s private school tuition, causing the family to divide: ‘My grandparents are heartbroken but can’t just pull that money out of nowhere again’

Imagine working tirelessly for years with the sole hope of attending the university of your dreams.  The time has finally come to make the big-girl request for your college fund, the most precious stack of savings, carefully set aside for this very purpose, a key puzzle piece in turning your dream into a reality. But …
Seguir leyendo 19-year-old school graduate finds out older sister spent her college fund on her step-children’s private school tuition, causing the family to divide: ‘My grandparents are heartbroken but can’t just pull that money out of nowhere again’

41-year-old brother borrows $16K from 39-year-old sister over the years, insists that she give him more money after she gave him $2K just 2 weeks before: ‘My husband and I just had a 3 hour conversation with him saying no!’

You really can’t help someone who refuses to help themself. You can throw as much money as you want at a situation, but it will not address the underlying issues of irresponsibility and dysfunction that lead to the need for extra money in the first place. It’s difficult to accept that you can’t do anything …
Seguir leyendo 41-year-old brother borrows $16K from 39-year-old sister over the years, insists that she give him more money after she gave him $2K just 2 weeks before: ‘My husband and I just had a 3 hour conversation with him saying no!’

14-year-old constantly mocks her 16-year-old sister for being adopted, older sister discovers that they’re actually both adopted: ‘My parents said don’t tell my sister or she’ll be devastated’

It’s never good to hide that a kid is adopted. It’s one of those things that the kid will eventually discover, and it would be a tragedy if it were never found out. The later a person learns about it, the more painful a realization it will be. That’s the case with many big family …
Seguir leyendo 14-year-old constantly mocks her 16-year-old sister for being adopted, older sister discovers that they’re actually both adopted: ‘My parents said don’t tell my sister or she’ll be devastated’

33-year-old mom forces her 14-year-old insomniac sister to watch her 3-month-old baby at home alone while she works all day: ‘Both my parents work, so I’m left alone with the baby for hours almost every day.’

Many families cannot afford to take care of their young children without working, nor can they afford to pay someone to do it for them. They need to work, and they need someone else to watch their baby all day for free, otherwise they won’t have enough money to live. Kids don’t spend their childhoods …
Seguir leyendo 33-year-old mom forces her 14-year-old insomniac sister to watch her 3-month-old baby at home alone while she works all day: ‘Both my parents work, so I’m left alone with the baby for hours almost every day.’

29-year-old squanders $75K inheritance from her grandma, asks her sister who invested her inheritance to pay $8K to fix her broken-down car: ‘She said I am selfish because I clearly have the money.’

I will never understand someone who thinks they are entitled to your money just because you have it and they asked for it. It doesn’t even occur to them that maybe you worked hard for that money, saved it for years, or went without things that you wanted in order to keep it safe from …
Seguir leyendo 29-year-old squanders $75K inheritance from her grandma, asks her sister who invested her inheritance to pay $8K to fix her broken-down car: ‘She said I am selfish because I clearly have the money.’