When you’re going through a breakup, everything can get messy. Your emotions get all mixed up, and you don’t know up from down. It’s hard to make decisions clearly, given the amount of emotional distress you’re in. This is why we should avoid rash decisions in these states. Sending money is one of them. Questions …
Seguir leyendo Ex boyfriend refuses to return $500 he ‘borrowed’ for Steam Deck he never paid back after tumultuous 5-year relationship: ‘I even lowered the amount he owed me so he’d pay me 500 instead of the almost 700 my part actually cost’
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31-year-old musician husband calls out wife for not attending every one of his shows, not buying tickets right when they drop: ‘Of the like 100 shows he’s played in our home state, I’ve gone to 90-95 of them’
Being in a relationship is all about compromise. In order to maintain a healthy relationship, you sometimes have to do things that you don’t want to. Does going to your partner’s office holiday party sound like the most fun thing in the world? Absolutely not. But you realize that the right thing to do is …
Seguir leyendo 31-year-old musician husband calls out wife for not attending every one of his shows, not buying tickets right when they drop: ‘Of the like 100 shows he’s played in our home state, I’ve gone to 90-95 of them’
28-year-old expecting mother forces partner to give up his sports car because she can’t drive a manual transmission, he thinks it’s unfair: ‘I cant understand why she won’t learn to drive manual’
When you’re about to have a baby, everything gets put into perspective. You realize the things you have to change about your life that you never thought you would have to change. A baby makes everything different. You don’t have to give up what makes you you, but you do have to think a little …
Seguir leyendo 28-year-old expecting mother forces partner to give up his sports car because she can’t drive a manual transmission, he thinks it’s unfair: ‘I cant understand why she won’t learn to drive manual’
‘You texted at 5:30pm to say you’d be working late, and she was freaked out by 6:30pm? That’s…not healthy’: Husband doesn’t reply to wife’s text for 1 hour, she flips out and considers calling the authorities
In the words of a disgraced rapper, «Soon as you see the text, reply me.» And some people live by that. Some folks can’t stand to sit on a text. Their wheels will immediately start to spin, and anxiety will creep up their necks. They can’t stand to wait even an hour for a reply. …
Seguir leyendo ‘You texted at 5:30pm to say you’d be working late, and she was freaked out by 6:30pm? That’s…not healthy’: Husband doesn’t reply to wife’s text for 1 hour, she flips out and considers calling the authorities
Burnt-out woman wants to take 1 week-long Hawaii vacation away from spouse, he doesn’t think it’s fair: ‘He gets 1 week paid PTO and he used it as a staycation. He’s not big on travel’
We all need time away from our loved ones now and then. The healthiest relationships know that time away makes everything go a little bit smoother. Distance makes the heart grow fonder, and that’s especially true in a long-term relationship. That doesn’t mean you should take breaks from each other all the time, it just …
Seguir leyendo Burnt-out woman wants to take 1 week-long Hawaii vacation away from spouse, he doesn’t think it’s fair: ‘He gets 1 week paid PTO and he used it as a staycation. He’s not big on travel’
Husband books a trip alone without wife and family after they can’t commit to a date, they call him selfish for not including them: ‘I went alone, had a great time, got $500 in free play at the casino, and even won $200 cash’
Planning a group trip is not an easy task. You know this if you’ve ever tried to lead one. As soon as you get more than one person involved in the planning of the vacation, everything starts to get more complicated. Everyone has different lives and jobs that leave them with different availabilities to travel. …
Seguir leyendo Husband books a trip alone without wife and family after they can’t commit to a date, they call him selfish for not including them: ‘I went alone, had a great time, got $500 in free play at the casino, and even won $200 cash’
24-year old woman calls out boyfriend for choosing to share a 1-bedroom with 22-year-old female cousin, claims it’s inappropriate: ‘She said that it’s weird that 2 grown ups of opposite gender live together’
When you’re in a relationship, you probably have certain boundaries with each other. That might extend to who you talk to, how you spend your time, and who you live with. You don’t get to control each other’s lives, but you should probably at least tolerate each other’s habits. You are choosing to be together, …
Seguir leyendo 24-year old woman calls out boyfriend for choosing to share a 1-bedroom with 22-year-old female cousin, claims it’s inappropriate: ‘She said that it’s weird that 2 grown ups of opposite gender live together’
Wife with in-person job cooks every meal for husband who works from home, he tries to take one of her lunches and she snaps at him: ‘He’s annoyed about being «scolded» like a child but is demonstrably a massive child’
She was taking on way more labor than her husband while working a full-time job. He still lashed out at her. It’s totally up to you and your partner how you split the labor. There is no cut-and-dry way to do it that will make everyone happy. And it doesn’t have to make anyone happy …
Seguir leyendo Wife with in-person job cooks every meal for husband who works from home, he tries to take one of her lunches and she snaps at him: ‘He’s annoyed about being «scolded» like a child but is demonstrably a massive child’
20-year-old girlfriend insists on going trick-or-treating with 25-year-old boyfriend on Halloween, he thinks it’s weird: ‘I don’t want to be a buzzkill’
There’s an episode of That 70s Show entitled «Too Old To Trick or Treat Too Young To Díe» and I think about that all the time. It’s such a poignant phrase. At a certain point in one’s life, you lose the ability to trick or treat. You probably didn’t notice it when it was happening, …
Seguir leyendo 20-year-old girlfriend insists on going trick-or-treating with 25-year-old boyfriend on Halloween, he thinks it’s weird: ‘I don’t want to be a buzzkill’
Husband calls out 20-year-old wife for spending $200 on groceries for family meal: ‘We absolutely can not make it to January with the money we currently have’
Everyone has different relationships with money, and everyone has different responses to stress. And unfortunately, those are two things that tend to go hand in hand. Money causes stress, and in a relationship, it’s even more true. If you’re in a partnership and sharing money, you need a good way to deal with that. The …
Seguir leyendo Husband calls out 20-year-old wife for spending $200 on groceries for family meal: ‘We absolutely can not make it to January with the money we currently have’