What do you want out of a relationship?

Everyone is allowed to want something different out of a partnership. We don’t all look for the same things, because if we did, things would get a little boring. We all have different wants and needs and things we’d like to accomplish. We all come from different places, which gives us different perspectives on relationships and different approaches to dating. There is nothing wrong with this, but it can result in some clashes if things don’t go to plan, and you end up arguing with someone over what it is that you want. Having an opinion is not against the rules, but it might run you into trouble with the wrong people if you’re not careful. And if you feel like everyone else but you has the same opinion and mindset, this can get a little bit annoying. You don’t want to feel like you’re the one person on the outside who understands something that everyone else doesn’t. Unless you’re the type of person who enjoys being controversial. You like having the one weird opinion that nobody else has. But this is a rare thing to come across, since the rule of the internet is «If there is an opinion to have, someone has it.» You can find someone out there who shares your opinion, and you can live in harmony forever, or something like that. The woman in this story, though, was having a hard time finding that in her own life until she shared her thoughts on the internet.