An older sibling should never be fully responsible for their younger sibling. «Parentification» happens all the time, and we should try our best to stop it in its tracks. This is when parents rely on/force their older children to take care of their younger children. They force them to take on the responsibilities of childcare …
Seguir leyendo Parents want 20-year-old daughter to move in with 24-year-old brother because they don’t trust her to live independently, don’t understand why brother refuses: ‘I live with my fiancée and while we do have a spare bedroom, my fiancée is 4 months pregnant’
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26-year-old crashes at cousin’s apartment temporarily, immediately starts rearranging her belongings: ‘My bathroom cabinet, my spice rack, even the books on my shelf’
Rearranging your furniture is one of the elite activities. If you’re ever stuck in your life and need a change of perspective, rearranging your furniture is the perfect way to do that. It’s free to do, and it will completely alter your daily routine. You’d be surprised. I recently moved my bed from one wall …
Seguir leyendo 26-year-old crashes at cousin’s apartment temporarily, immediately starts rearranging her belongings: ‘My bathroom cabinet, my spice rack, even the books on my shelf’
18-year-old repeatedly catches her teen niece secretly using and wasting her perfumes and toiletries, discovering her untouched bottle of perfume was drained in one month, niece continues despite being warned to stop: ‘This is mine and she knows that’
This aunt seems to have been involuntarily cast in the sister role in this Family Drama…She’s eighteen years old and living with her thirteen-year-old niece, so there are bound to be a few sisterly crossover episodes! Family is family at the end of the day, whether they share parents or not. I have a little …
Seguir leyendo 18-year-old repeatedly catches her teen niece secretly using and wasting her perfumes and toiletries, discovering her untouched bottle of perfume was drained in one month, niece continues despite being warned to stop: ‘This is mine and she knows that’
‘I don’t think it’s fair for her to take advantage of me’: 24-year-old woman living with her brother refuses to keep doing her lazy sister-in-law, Lara’s, personal laundry after being repeatedly treated like the «household maid»
A fork washed or sock spun now and then is one thing, but expecting someone else to wash your personal laundry is a whole different league of crazy expectations. This 24-year-old girl lives with her brother and his wife, and whilst she is grateful for their hospitality, she equally contributes to the finances and utilities, …
Seguir leyendo ‘I don’t think it’s fair for her to take advantage of me’: 24-year-old woman living with her brother refuses to keep doing her lazy sister-in-law, Lara’s, personal laundry after being repeatedly treated like the «household maid»
24-year old woman calls out boyfriend for choosing to share a 1-bedroom with 22-year-old female cousin, claims it’s inappropriate: ‘She said that it’s weird that 2 grown ups of opposite gender live together’
When you’re in a relationship, you probably have certain boundaries with each other. That might extend to who you talk to, how you spend your time, and who you live with. You don’t get to control each other’s lives, but you should probably at least tolerate each other’s habits. You are choosing to be together, …
Seguir leyendo 24-year old woman calls out boyfriend for choosing to share a 1-bedroom with 22-year-old female cousin, claims it’s inappropriate: ‘She said that it’s weird that 2 grown ups of opposite gender live together’
27-year-old man refuses to join his 59-year-old mother’s “last family vacation” cruise when she purposely excludes his fiancée, sparking a family conflict over loyalty and her attempt to maintain old dynamics: ‘Put me in position to choose between them’
This story has sparked a range of opinions, each raising valid points. However, the only perspectives that truly matter here are those of this son, his fiancée, and his mother: The ultimate and most feared love triangle in history. Mothers can be notoriously possessive of their children, a feeling that takes on a whole new …
Seguir leyendo 27-year-old man refuses to join his 59-year-old mother’s “last family vacation” cruise when she purposely excludes his fiancée, sparking a family conflict over loyalty and her attempt to maintain old dynamics: ‘Put me in position to choose between them’
30-year-old daughter is exhausted after financially and emotionally supporting her «live-in» parents, she wants to move out and reduce expenses, demanding they move in with her brother, but fears being seen as selfish: ‘Treats my finances as his’
We often hear of adults who still live with their parents…but how often do we hear about parents who voluntarily live with their adult children? Most adults, especially those with their own little family, value personal space and a life of independence. If their parents needed them, of course, they would open up their homes …
Seguir leyendo 30-year-old daughter is exhausted after financially and emotionally supporting her «live-in» parents, she wants to move out and reduce expenses, demanding they move in with her brother, but fears being seen as selfish: ‘Treats my finances as his’
‘She’s 23, loud, messy, unemployed more often than not’: Stepdad insists his daughter move into 26-year-old stepdaughter’s one-bedroom apartment rent-free, calls her ‘selfish’ for refusing
When you’re past a certain age, or paying your own bills, you get to decide who you live with and who you don’t. Maybe you have roommates, but hopefully they’re your friends or carefully-chosen strangers. Maybe you let your friend from college crash there when they’re in town. Maybe you let family stay with you …
Seguir leyendo ‘She’s 23, loud, messy, unemployed more often than not’: Stepdad insists his daughter move into 26-year-old stepdaughter’s one-bedroom apartment rent-free, calls her ‘selfish’ for refusing
20-year-old student discovers through social media that her roommate adopted a cat behind her back, after she persistently refused to get a pet, claiming it would become her responsibility: ‘I’m angry, I’m annoyed, I just don’t know how to go about it’
To Adopt or Not To Adopt, now that is the question… Nothing is more awkward than having disagreements with a roommate, whether small or big. A roomie-argument means that the eggshells have been scattered all around the apartment floor, and the giant elephant in the room is officially squashing them. Of course, the tension may …
Seguir leyendo 20-year-old student discovers through social media that her roommate adopted a cat behind her back, after she persistently refused to get a pet, claiming it would become her responsibility: ‘I’m angry, I’m annoyed, I just don’t know how to go about it’
26-year-old girlfriend can’t pay rent after spending $800 on a designer purse, freaks out when boyfriend discusses financial responsibility with her: ‘She got defensive and said I was controlling and «didn’t understand women.’
Everything we buy should be categorized into «needs» and «wants.» The most important monthly expenses are rent/house payment, electricity, water, and food. If you can’t afford these things, you’re in deep trouble. After that, you need gas in your car so you can get to work and around the house items like soap and toilet …
Seguir leyendo 26-year-old girlfriend can’t pay rent after spending $800 on a designer purse, freaks out when boyfriend discusses financial responsibility with her: ‘She got defensive and said I was controlling and «didn’t understand women.’