Bride refuses to let 6-year-old flower girl wear her princess dress to her wedding, despite her sister’s insistence that her daughter wear the princess dress: ‘It’s her signature, and she feels more comfortable in it.’

Why is her mother encouraging this? One of the worst things about weddings is that everyone likes to make it about themselves. A lot of wedding guests don’t care if their behavior upsets the couple getting married because they’re accustomed to getting their way, even when the event isn’t about them at all. The little …
Seguir leyendo Bride refuses to let 6-year-old flower girl wear her princess dress to her wedding, despite her sister’s insistence that her daughter wear the princess dress: ‘It’s her signature, and she feels more comfortable in it.’

Parents spend $30K of their daughter’s college savings on a kitchen renovation because she decided to take a year off college: ‘I told her she could attend community college.’

Why would they make it so much harder for her to go back to school?  If your parents paid for your college education, you should consider yourself lucky. A lot of young people feel forced to take out tens of thousands of dollars in student loans because they want a degree, and their parents can’t …
Seguir leyendo Parents spend $30K of their daughter’s college savings on a kitchen renovation because she decided to take a year off college: ‘I told her she could attend community college.’

Stepmom refuses to let her 9-year-old stepson’s mom sleep over at her house the night before his birthday so she can wake him up to wish him Happy Birthday: ‘Every milestone will become this. Every birthday, Christmas, Wedding day.’

She’s really pushing it It is really hard to share your child with your ex and their new partner. Some parents revel in having a couple of days off a week from being in full-time parent mode, but many would much rather have their kid for every single second of every single day. Having split …
Seguir leyendo Stepmom refuses to let her 9-year-old stepson’s mom sleep over at her house the night before his birthday so she can wake him up to wish him Happy Birthday: ‘Every milestone will become this. Every birthday, Christmas, Wedding day.’

Dad refuses to play with his son because he read somewhere that spending time with his child will lower his testosterone: ‘Let him figure out whether child support lowers his testosterone.’

He sounds like the father of the year.  You don’t have to be a deadbeat parent to be a bad parent. Living in the same house as your children, without technically abandoning them, does not make you a good parent. In fact, some would argue that an absent parent should be physically absent. If you’re …
Seguir leyendo Dad refuses to play with his son because he read somewhere that spending time with his child will lower his testosterone: ‘Let him figure out whether child support lowers his testosterone.’

Mom takes away 13-year-old son’s video games because he keeps accidentally wetting himself while playing: ‘This should be resulting in a trip to the doctor.’

Why is she taking his video games away instead of addressing the underlying problem?  Many parents think their kids should be directing their own lives. They think their 3-year-old will let them know when they’re ready to be potty trained, but that couldn’t be further from the truth. Kids need their parents to plan their …
Seguir leyendo Mom takes away 13-year-old son’s video games because he keeps accidentally wetting himself while playing: ‘This should be resulting in a trip to the doctor.’

Dad didn’t feed his 5-month-old baby while Mom was out for hours, claiming it was because she didn’t leave instructions: ‘Had I not come home, baby wouldn’t have eaten for 5 hours or more.’

He knew she would be gone for that long, and she had left instructions!  One of the most important decisions you can make in your life is who you get married to. If you get married to the wrong person, and you will know if you do, you need to make sure you don’t have …
Seguir leyendo Dad didn’t feed his 5-month-old baby while Mom was out for hours, claiming it was because she didn’t leave instructions: ‘Had I not come home, baby wouldn’t have eaten for 5 hours or more.’

Dad bans 14-year-old daughter from going to the movie theater with her friends because she got 85% on her math test and 87% on her physics test: ‘She burst into tears, but I had to stay firm in my decision.’

Is he being too harsh on his daughter?  There are a lot of parents out there who do not tolerate their kids getting less-than-perfect grades. If their kid gets an 89 on a quiz, they aren’t allowed to see their friends for a month. I think most of us can agree that such punishment is …
Seguir leyendo Dad bans 14-year-old daughter from going to the movie theater with her friends because she got 85% on her math test and 87% on her physics test: ‘She burst into tears, but I had to stay firm in my decision.’

Mom removes pink crayons and markers from her son’s school supplies because she thinks that pink is for girls: ‘Now that boy is going to have to color a flamingo brick red.’

What is her problem? There are a lot of parents who police their children’s gender expression. They don’t allow their girls to dress masculine or get short haircuts out of fear that they’ll be mistaken for boys, and they forbid their sons from playing with dolls or playing dress-up the same way their sisters do. …
Seguir leyendo Mom removes pink crayons and markers from her son’s school supplies because she thinks that pink is for girls: ‘Now that boy is going to have to color a flamingo brick red.’

Mom Demands $1K per Month From Her High-Earning Son To Keep up Her Luxurious Lifestyle, He Refuses

Are you obligated to subsidize your parents’ lifestyle? Every culture has different expectations around helping out your parents as you get older. In some cultures, there’s no inherent obligation to help the people who raised you. In others, it’s unthinkable to do anything less than your best to help out your parents. We all grow …
Seguir leyendo Mom Demands $1K per Month From Her High-Earning Son To Keep up Her Luxurious Lifestyle, He Refuses

Mom Forces 17-Year-Old Daughter and 16-Year-Old Son to Catch 1 Fish Before She Buys Them Cars: ‘When They Were Little, They Wouldn’t Even Try Fishing Because it Looked Hard.’

Is she teaching them responsibility, or is she making them jump through arbitrary hoops? It’s important to teach teenagers that they’re not entitled to expensive, material things. Just because everyone else in their class is getting a brand-new car the day they turn 16 doesn’t mean they will get the same privilege, and honestly, that’s …
Seguir leyendo Mom Forces 17-Year-Old Daughter and 16-Year-Old Son to Catch 1 Fish Before She Buys Them Cars: ‘When They Were Little, They Wouldn’t Even Try Fishing Because it Looked Hard.’