Brother puts a massive wedge between his sister and her fiancé after not allowing him into his home, turns out everyone wants them to break up: ‘[Her friends and] I never liked him…’

There are some things only a sibling communicate and «I hate the person you’re dating» is one of them. Just like in this family dynamic. It turns out everybody hated this girl’s boyfriend. He’s apparently entitled, lazy, and controlling. He even lost his job! Since losing his job, they cannot afford rent on just the …
Seguir leyendo Brother puts a massive wedge between his sister and her fiancé after not allowing him into his home, turns out everyone wants them to break up: ‘[Her friends and] I never liked him…’

28-year-old daughter refuses to get Christmas gift for brother-in-law of 9 years, says it’s not her responsibility: ‘All of his interests are childish and I don’t want to waste my money on them’

It’s beginning to be that time of year when all we can think about is buying presents. We’re going through lists in our heads of all the people we need to accommodate, and we’re wondering how we can do it as efficiently as possible. Unless you’re one of those people who come alive at the …
Seguir leyendo 28-year-old daughter refuses to get Christmas gift for brother-in-law of 9 years, says it’s not her responsibility: ‘All of his interests are childish and I don’t want to waste my money on them’

32-year-old husband forced to act as unofficial executor for recently passed father-in-law even though his wife is left nothing, mother-in-law demands 27-year-old brother-in-law gets it all: ‘[He’s] not the brightest…’

With marriage comes big financial discussions and drama. This married couple are at a halt on what to do with the inheritance that her father left her brother and mother. That’s right, he left nothing for her. And yet, it is her husband who is figuring everything out for her family. Her mother now wants …
Seguir leyendo 32-year-old husband forced to act as unofficial executor for recently passed father-in-law even though his wife is left nothing, mother-in-law demands 27-year-old brother-in-law gets it all: ‘[He’s] not the brightest…’

29-year-old unexpectedly hosts sister and brother-in-law for weekend, offends them claiming she’ll kick them out for making noise with cutlery: ‘From the start, they were entitled and disrespectful’

Rule number one when staying somewhere as a houseguest: respect the preferences of the host. The best way to show gratitude for somebody allowing you to stay in their home for any amount of time is to be mindful of the kind of living environment that they prefer to have, especially if they are hosting …
Seguir leyendo 29-year-old unexpectedly hosts sister and brother-in-law for weekend, offends them claiming she’ll kick them out for making noise with cutlery: ‘From the start, they were entitled and disrespectful’

Brother-in-law insists that husband moves out of his wife’s family home that he owns so her aging mother can live there: ‘They don’t care if my wife stays or moves with me, they just want ME gone’

It’s wild how entitled some family members can be to your home and your space. I know many people advocate for intergenerational families living together, but that is not always enjoyable for the person named on the mortgage. If you’re the stable person in the family and everyone around you is mooching off your kindness, …
Seguir leyendo Brother-in-law insists that husband moves out of his wife’s family home that he owns so her aging mother can live there: ‘They don’t care if my wife stays or moves with me, they just want ME gone’

Brother-in-law camps out in bathroom for hours while staying at his sister-in-law’s 2 bedroom, 1 bathroom house: ‘I told him I really had to go. It took him an hour to get out.’

When you live in a house with four people to one bathroom, you have to be hyper-aware of not hogging the space during incredibly inopportune times. You can’t blow-dry your hair for twenty minutes during high-traffic times, like weekday mornings. Other people’s showers and trips to the toilet are more important than standing in front …
Seguir leyendo Brother-in-law camps out in bathroom for hours while staying at his sister-in-law’s 2 bedroom, 1 bathroom house: ‘I told him I really had to go. It took him an hour to get out.’

Brother-in-law protests after unemployed man expects sister to drive him to potential jobs with a 40 minute commute: ‘My wife and I share one car and there isn’t any public transportation’

For all that those who have jobs may complain about the trials and tribulations that come from work, there is no denying that being unemployed is the worst. Worrying about some dumb deadline is preferable to worrying about how to pay bills because you don’t have a steady income. On top of that, the act …
Seguir leyendo Brother-in-law protests after unemployed man expects sister to drive him to potential jobs with a 40 minute commute: ‘My wife and I share one car and there isn’t any public transportation’

Entitled brother-in-law expects to stay expense-free in husband and wife’s Honolulu home indefinitely, wife demands he pay $150/week moving forward: ‘That’s way less than what it’s costing us’

In-laws tend to think they’re untouchable when it comes to their biological family member’s partner. They seem to think they can treat you however they see fit, use you for all you have, then spit you out when they’re done with you. There are some spouses who can’t take the heat, sure—but most spouses refuse …
Seguir leyendo Entitled brother-in-law expects to stay expense-free in husband and wife’s Honolulu home indefinitely, wife demands he pay $150/week moving forward: ‘That’s way less than what it’s costing us’

35-year-old gets widowed before brother’s wedding, brother-in-law refuses to reschedule after her mom asks them to postpone: ‘ Our wedding was planned for the 10 year anniversary of when we met’

The problem with planning something as big and cumbersome as a wedding is that it often doesn’t take much in terms of unforeseen circumstances for the whole thing to be derailed. Venues or caterers can cancel, one of the wedding party can start drama, or family members can act up unexpectedly—and that is just the …
Seguir leyendo 35-year-old gets widowed before brother’s wedding, brother-in-law refuses to reschedule after her mom asks them to postpone: ‘ Our wedding was planned for the 10 year anniversary of when we met’

17-year-old sister gives calls out brother in law by giving him a cookie every time he is impolite to others: ‘I would open the jar and give him a cookie saying “Here’s your peace offering!» […] Everyone would burst out laughing and he would shut up’

If you give a mouse a cookie he’s going to want a glass of milk to go with it. But if you give a cookie to your toxic brother-in-law every time he’s being ill-mannered, impolite, or generally audacious—you’re going to end up with a bad-tempered brother-in-law who isn’t happy about being finally called out on …
Seguir leyendo 17-year-old sister gives calls out brother in law by giving him a cookie every time he is impolite to others: ‘I would open the jar and give him a cookie saying “Here’s your peace offering!» […] Everyone would burst out laughing and he would shut up’