Bride and groom force 100 wedding guests to drive to 4 different wedding venues over the course of their wedding: ‘It was over 30 miles, through LA traffic in 100°F heat.’

Have you ever been to a wedding that surprises you with multiple extra locations? It’s pretty common for brides and grooms to ask a lot of their wedding guests. They don’t like to think about how the most important day of their lives might be a major inconvenience for some of their friends and family. …
Seguir leyendo Bride and groom force 100 wedding guests to drive to 4 different wedding venues over the course of their wedding: ‘It was over 30 miles, through LA traffic in 100°F heat.’

Bridesmaid spends over $1,500 for her friend’s wedding, but gets left out of photos, unnamed in the speech, and iced out on the big day

Being a bridesmaid used to mean holding a bouquet and standing next to your friend for twenty minutes. Now it’s basically enrolling in a timeshare you can’t get out of, except instead of a beach condo you get a dress you paid for yourself and a group chat full of demanding requests The bachelorette trip …
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Bride expects in-laws to pay for $80K castle wedding plus their honeymoon, in-laws refuse unless she signs a prenup: ‘He thinks we are ruining his engagement by making his wife seem like a gold digger’

He’s in for a world of hurt if he doesn’t get a prenup for this big spender. If a person is spending frivolously and managing their finances badly before they get married, there’s a pretty good chance that it won’t change once they actually tie the knot. It’s essential to be on the same financial …
Seguir leyendo Bride expects in-laws to pay for $80K castle wedding plus their honeymoon, in-laws refuse unless she signs a prenup: ‘He thinks we are ruining his engagement by making his wife seem like a gold digger’

‘I was shocked. I’d already spent hundreds helping her, and she never mentioned paying for my plus one’: Bridesmaid leaves her friend Emily’s wedding early after being forced to pay for her boyfriend’s dinner and getting stuck at the kids’ table

Weddings really push the limits of friendship, they have this magical power to check how much friends of the bride and groom can endure, but the path of least resistance seems to be seeing how much you can pay before you snap. You show up as the supportive bridesmaid, spend way too much on the …
Seguir leyendo ‘I was shocked. I’d already spent hundreds helping her, and she never mentioned paying for my plus one’: Bridesmaid leaves her friend Emily’s wedding early after being forced to pay for her boyfriend’s dinner and getting stuck at the kids’ table

‘She is just shifting all of the costs onto other people’: Entitled bride expects guests to pitch in for her “free” wedding, then a friend gives her a wakeup call

Everything could be technically «free» if someone else pays for it, but planning your wedding around the expectation that all of your guests—family, friends, and work buddies—will front the cost isn’t following the trendy «free wedding» style; you’re just freeloading.  Recently, a trend has been going around promoting «free» weddings, or events that are essentially …
Seguir leyendo ‘She is just shifting all of the costs onto other people’: Entitled bride expects guests to pitch in for her “free” wedding, then a friend gives her a wakeup call

29-year-old bride demands her cousin let her host her wedding in her pottery studio, badmouths her to her family when she refuses: ‘My studio isn’t licensed for events like that and the cleanup would be a total nightmare’

It’s easy to sit around and contemplate your dream wedding venue. Wouldn’t it be swell to get married in the Metropolitan Museum of Art or at Notre-Dame de Paris? Of course, we know as mere civilians we can’t afford to have a wedding at these places, and the risk of being around such precious artifacts …
Seguir leyendo 29-year-old bride demands her cousin let her host her wedding in her pottery studio, badmouths her to her family when she refuses: ‘My studio isn’t licensed for events like that and the cleanup would be a total nightmare’

Stepsister drops out of being a bridesmaid after bride insists that she wears an ugly dress while the 7 other bridesmaids wear pretty dresses: ‘She told me it wasn’t my wedding and I was meant to do what she wanted.’

Coordinating bridesmaid dresses for your bridal party is no small feat. I dread the day that I’m going to have to do it, because knowing me, I’ll want to do yellow or some other unflattering color as the theme, and will have to compromise so that all my friends don’t hate me. I have friends …
Seguir leyendo Stepsister drops out of being a bridesmaid after bride insists that she wears an ugly dress while the 7 other bridesmaids wear pretty dresses: ‘She told me it wasn’t my wedding and I was meant to do what she wanted.’

Cheap bride charges her sister a $150 bridesmaid fee, despite already making her pay $300 for a bridesmaid dress: ‘I told her I couldn’t afford it and that it felt wrong to charge me to be a part of her wedding.’

It ain’t cheap to be a bridesmaid. This autumn I had my very first bachelorette experience, and while I didn’t go into debt for it, it certainly cost more than I initially expected. I don’t think there’s anything wrong with wanting to go on a nice trip with all of your besties and party for …
Seguir leyendo Cheap bride charges her sister a $150 bridesmaid fee, despite already making her pay $300 for a bridesmaid dress: ‘I told her I couldn’t afford it and that it felt wrong to charge me to be a part of her wedding.’

34-year-old bride asks her younger sister to help plan her wedding after snubbing her from an invitation: ‘She said that her wedding was small and for a close circle.’

If there’s one person who has to be at my future wedding and vice versa, it’s my younger sister. We have discussed many times whether it is best practice to choose your sister as your Maid of Honor because it is more diplomatic than picking a favorite from your other friends. At this point (I …
Seguir leyendo 34-year-old bride asks her younger sister to help plan her wedding after snubbing her from an invitation: ‘She said that her wedding was small and for a close circle.’

Bridesmaid refuses to spend $130 on her bouquet after she bought her own dress and offered to make bouquets for free, bride removes her as a bridesmaid and uninvites her from the wedding: ‘The bride said to me that I could attend the after party»

It’s easy to underestimate the financial burden of being a bridesmaid. If you’re not going on a proper bachelorette trip, which will undoubtedly set participants back a couple of hundred dollars, the only expense you’re expected to make is for the bridesmaid dress, which in theory shouldn’t cost that much. Some brides are generous enough …
Seguir leyendo Bridesmaid refuses to spend $130 on her bouquet after she bought her own dress and offered to make bouquets for free, bride removes her as a bridesmaid and uninvites her from the wedding: ‘The bride said to me that I could attend the after party»