Sister-in-law babysits niece for $400 biweekly, protests when mom docks her pay for selling their $600 stroller: ‘I told her it was a loan’

Why did she think she had the right to sell somebody else’s property? The belief that family helps family is rarely more important than when it comes to childcare. One of the most valuable resources that a parent can have is somebody who is willing to occasionally look after their kids for free or at …
Seguir leyendo Sister-in-law babysits niece for $400 biweekly, protests when mom docks her pay for selling their $600 stroller: ‘I told her it was a loan’

‘She didn’t even ask me’: Woman refuses to drop everything after her entitled sister assumes she’ll babysit her 6-year-old daughter, stands her ground and keeps her original plans

Is she wrong for refusing to cancel her plans after her sister volunteered her as a babysitter? When it comes to family, the boundary between «personal time» and being there for others often vanishes. Some members would assume that for the sake of family, we should drop everything and go to help. And I’m not …
Seguir leyendo ‘She didn’t even ask me’: Woman refuses to drop everything after her entitled sister assumes she’ll babysit her 6-year-old daughter, stands her ground and keeps her original plans

26-year-old refuses to babysit his older brother’s kids after he dumps them on his porch unannounced: ‘He [says] I should be grateful that he trusts me’

Family is family and all that, but at some point you just gotta put your foot down, don’t you? Because family has a way of turning one sibling’s success into a debt that everyone else feels entitled to collect.  In this family, the child who figured life out becomes the safety net for the one …
Seguir leyendo 26-year-old refuses to babysit his older brother’s kids after he dumps them on his porch unannounced: ‘He [says] I should be grateful that he trusts me’

A 26-year-old woman gets invited to a family birthday dinner, ends up babysitting 6 of her relatives’ kids while their parents relax: ‘I came here to enjoy dinner too’

When does «keep an eye on the kids» turn into an unpaid babysitting shift for the entire family? I can’t tell you how much this story resonates with me. In my family, we’re eight cousins: four are older, and the other four came 12 years later. That means that my fellow older batch and I …
Seguir leyendo A 26-year-old woman gets invited to a family birthday dinner, ends up babysitting 6 of her relatives’ kids while their parents relax: ‘I came here to enjoy dinner too’

‘Welcome to the babysitter’s club’: Memes for nannies and babysitters doing a great job and deserving some good laughs of appreciation

Give it up for all the amazing nannies out there handling nap time and temper tantrums!  Having kids is a hard job as it is, especially in their toddler years, when they already know what they want but haven’t learned to control their emotions or follow any societal norms. Yep, quite the challenge to deal …
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19-year-old refuses to babysit his younger half-brother because his stepmom stole $2000 from him: ‘I’m scared my dad and stepmom will be angry with me and stop wanting me around.’

Why should he help out his stepmom when she stole from him? There is no shortage of older siblings who are tasked with the near-constant care of their younger siblings. This is a familiar dynamic in families where both parents work, and there’s no grandparent, aunt, or uncle who lives nearby and is willing to …
Seguir leyendo 19-year-old refuses to babysit his younger half-brother because his stepmom stole $2000 from him: ‘I’m scared my dad and stepmom will be angry with me and stop wanting me around.’

20-year-old rents room from aunt, aunt is annoyed when she refuses to babysit her 5-year-old twins for free: ‘They’re great kids, but they’re LOUD’

Do you need to offer free babysitting to your family members? It’s nice to offer help where you can, but it’s probably not something you want to sacrifice your own needs for. When you’re young and in school, your priority should be yourself. There will be enough chance to be responsible for other people when …
Seguir leyendo 20-year-old rents room from aunt, aunt is annoyed when she refuses to babysit her 5-year-old twins for free: ‘They’re great kids, but they’re LOUD’

Dad didn’t feed his 5-month-old baby while Mom was out for hours, claiming it was because she didn’t leave instructions: ‘Had I not come home, baby wouldn’t have eaten for 5 hours or more.’

He knew she would be gone for that long, and she had left instructions!  One of the most important decisions you can make in your life is who you get married to. If you get married to the wrong person, and you will know if you do, you need to make sure you don’t have …
Seguir leyendo Dad didn’t feed his 5-month-old baby while Mom was out for hours, claiming it was because she didn’t leave instructions: ‘Had I not come home, baby wouldn’t have eaten for 5 hours or more.’

‘I thought someone broke in’: Mom hides live camera in sister’s apartment to watch as sister babysits her kids, until sister finds it and refuses to babysit ever again

Do you trust the people who watch your kids when you can’t? If your answer is ‘no’, then maybe you shouldn’t let those people stay alone with your kids, or maybe you should work on yourself and understand what it is that makes it hard for you to trust others with babysitting. Obviously, it can …
Seguir leyendo ‘I thought someone broke in’: Mom hides live camera in sister’s apartment to watch as sister babysits her kids, until sister finds it and refuses to babysit ever again

Aunt travels to brother and sister-in-law to help with kids, faces pushback when she asks for a break after babysitting for 10 hours straight: ‘I went two days without showering’

The greatest gift to offer a struggling parent is a helping hand. No matter how much parents love their kids, there is no denying that being the sole caretaker of multiple young children 24/7 can get draining and overwhelming. Arguably, having somebody else helping with the childcare now and then allows for better parenting, because …
Seguir leyendo Aunt travels to brother and sister-in-law to help with kids, faces pushback when she asks for a break after babysitting for 10 hours straight: ‘I went two days without showering’