Grandma cooks for family once a month, mom complains it’s never enough to feed them all: ‘It’s barely enough for 2 people’

Is it wrong to have constructive criticism towards a kind gesture? Family is nothing but not complicated, and the ways in which relatives try to maintain relationships and support each other are always going to vary according to the abilities and desires of everybody involved. When there are kids in the picture, trying to develop …
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Mom complains about Boomer grandma only agreeing to watch kids so long as she never has to do it again: ‘She says I need a reliable back up plan because she may bail’

Are all boomers bad grandparents? A lot of people like to hand-wring about the fact that the birth rate is falling, but a lot of those people also don’t like to take into account that those parents pumping up the numbers back in the day also wouldn’t have had as many kids if they had …
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Mom expects her sister to pick her kids up from school without asking her if she’s free to do it: ‘My nephew called me asking where I was. I had no idea I was supposed to be picking them up.’

Is she supposed to know through osmosis that she’s supposed to pick up her niblings?  Nobody likes to sit in the school pickup line. I remember my mom had to show up to school like an hour early to get a good spot in the school pickup line. If I were to do it all …
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In-laws move to rural cabin in Montana 5 hours away from the nearest airport, complain that their 4 children and their grandchildren never visit them

Should the grandparents travel to their adult children and grandchildren, or should the children travel to their parents? That is the question that has plagued families for generations, and there is no clear and easy answer. Many grandparents are unable to travel far to visit their adult children because they’re aging and their bodies cannot …
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72-year-old mom agrees to pay $500 in rent to live in her 45-year-old daughter’s house, goes back on promise after secretly racking up thousands of dollars in debt

She’s doing this because she doesn’t think her daughter will kick her out of the house.  You cannot fix your problems by throwing money at them. If you’re a miserable sourpuss who is convinced that you’re a blight on the universe, your self-esteem isn’t suddenly going to improve because you have a lot of dough …
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19-year-old calls out sister’s boyfriend for eating all the shared food at grandparents’ house after he finishes the steaks meant for everyone and refuses to chip in for groceries: ‘Food doesn’t just appear on its own’

People have different appetites, and that’s fine. Needing more food is not a lack of manners. But the problem starts when one person eats as if nobody else exists… In a shared family space where older relatives are doing the cooking, and someone else is paying for the groceries. This sister’s boyfriend’s behavior is disrespectful …
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30-Year-Old Dad Scolds 28-Year-Old Mom for Pressuring Their Daughter to Wear a Dress to Grandma’s House

Did he treat his wife like a child, or was he standing up for his daughter’s autonomy in the way that she deserved?  As a parent, it can be a real struggle to get your kids to wear formal attire. To be fair, I understand where kids are coming from! Tights and Mary Janes are …
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‘When I was your age…’: Grandparents memes for anyone raised on love, unsolicited advice, and too much food

«Back in my day…» That’s the opening line of every grandparent story ever told. And we listen carefully, and we respect it. Because we love them. There’s no other human on earth who’s as sweet, as wise, and as dramatic as a grandparent. Somehow, your grandma is always ready to give you food, advice, or …
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Disney-Obsessed Grandma Plans Disney World Trip With Grandkids Without Asking Their Parents, Despite Needing Help With Her Bill For The Last 6 Months

How can she pay for Disney World for multiple people if she can’t even pay her own bills? Disney Adults are one of the most oppressed groups in the world today. Well, not necessarily, but they do get a lot of slack for the mere crime of liking a theme park. Sure, maybe wearing mouse …
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Mom relies on grandma to babysit, protests when she keeps giving 2-year-old her phone: ‘I want to raise my son without screens’

Should a parent have to sacrifice their principles to get family to babysit? It is a well-known phenomenon that a lot of parents start out with the noblest intentions when they have their kids, but they do not always translate into their experience of parenting. They insist that their future children will not embarrass them …
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