72-year-old mom agrees to pay $500 in rent to live in her 45-year-old daughter’s house, goes back on promise after secretly racking up thousands of dollars in debt

She’s doing this because she doesn’t think her daughter will kick her out of the house. 

You cannot fix your problems by throwing money at them. If you’re a miserable sourpuss who is convinced that you’re a blight on the universe, your self-esteem isn’t suddenly going to improve because you have a lot of dough in the bank. If you are a homebody who always complains that you don’t have any friends, a generous stock profile isn’t going to make you a fun hang. There’s a huge group of men online who think that money would solve all of their dating problems, but that’s just not true. If she doesn’t like you when you make six figures, she’s not going to change her tune if you get a sizable raise in two months. Money can be used as a tool to improve your life, but a lot of your problems don’t have anything to do with money at all. 

Having money can’t solve the root cause of your money problems. If someone is terrible with their money, they’re going to be terrible with it whether they’re making $50K a year or $200K a year. Giving a financially irresponsible person a sizable sum of money to pay off their debts might propel them into a debt-free lifestyle, but that’s contingent on their stopping the things that got them into debt in the first place. If someone keeps getting bailed out, you can’t be surprised when they start to expect it.

The woman in this story keeps bailing her mother out, not by paying her debts, but by giving her a place to live, even though her mother keeps throwing her money away. Some people think that it’s only right to house your parents, even when their own stupidity is putting them into bad financial situations. Would you charge your mom rent if she kept getting herself into bad financial situations? Would you have the gall to kick her out if she failed to pay her portion of the rent?

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