He is bad news, and she should’ve left him a whole lot sooner. You cannot predict how a relationship will shake out. Who among us hasn’t looked back at the beginning of our relationships and thought, «If only I knew then what I know now? If so, I would’ve never gotten in that relationship.» There …
Seguir leyendo Boyfriend calls his girlfriend’s 3-year-old daughter an orphan because he thinks her mom works too much: ‘With how much I work, she might as well not have any parents at all.’
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Husband spends his wife’s grandma’s $5K inheritance on his $4.2K in credit card debt, leaving little for his wife to pay her $2.1K in credit card debt: ‘He says it’s for the good of the family.’
Inheritance should not be spent by someone for whom it wasn’t intended. Many people feel entitled to their family members’ money. We all know someone who thinks that they deserve thousands of dollars from their grandparents upon their passing, even though they made no effort to have a relationship with them when they were alive. …
Seguir leyendo Husband spends his wife’s grandma’s $5K inheritance on his $4.2K in credit card debt, leaving little for his wife to pay her $2.1K in credit card debt: ‘He says it’s for the good of the family.’
41-year-old unemployed boyfriend tells 25-year-old girlfriend who works 3 jobs he doesn’t ever want to be an employee again: ‘His mother covers all his living expenses.’
He literally brings nothing to the table, and yet he’s still eating. Nothing makes you less tolerant of lazy adults than being responsible for supporting one. If you wake up at 6 AM every day, drive an hour to work and back, and spend your whole day working hard, there’s a good chance you’ll feel …
Seguir leyendo 41-year-old unemployed boyfriend tells 25-year-old girlfriend who works 3 jobs he doesn’t ever want to be an employee again: ‘His mother covers all his living expenses.’
Man’s grandfather has medical emergency and he informs his girlfriend, only for her to complain about his family members’ failure to reach out to her too: ‘She seems more concerned about the optics of her concern’
Medical emergencies are sprung on us at any given moment, even when we feel the least ready for them. That’s why it’s important to surround yourself with supportive people who know exactly how to help be a pillar of strength when you’re going through tough times. Usually, that person is a romantic partner/signficant other. If …
Seguir leyendo Man’s grandfather has medical emergency and he informs his girlfriend, only for her to complain about his family members’ failure to reach out to her too: ‘She seems more concerned about the optics of her concern’
25-year-old boyfriend refuses to pay 22-year-old girlfriend’s $70K per year college tuition, turns her nose up at his offer of $20K per year: ‘She says I’m being unsupportive’
You need to think long and hard about giving thousands of dollars to someone. I don’t care if you believe they are the love of your life…anyone receiving thousands of dollars from someone else is not going to have the same kind of relationship with them as they would with somebody they have no financial …
Seguir leyendo 25-year-old boyfriend refuses to pay 22-year-old girlfriend’s $70K per year college tuition, turns her nose up at his offer of $20K per year: ‘She says I’m being unsupportive’
Boyfriend of 10 months asks girlfriend to lend him $7K from her 401K despite not paying her back the $250 she already lent him: ‘The first loan was a test’
He can’t even pay back $250. What makes her think she should lend him thousands of dollars? Asking for money early in a relationship is a huge red flag. If someone you’ve been dating for less than a year relies on you for financial support, they might be after your money more than they’re after …
Seguir leyendo Boyfriend of 10 months asks girlfriend to lend him $7K from her 401K despite not paying her back the $250 she already lent him: ‘The first loan was a test’
31-year-old girlfriend making $100K expects boyfriend to pay her $40K in credit card debt, $60K in car loans, and $20K in student loans: ‘You’ll take care of my debt.’
She’s going to spend her boyfriend out of house and home. There’s a significant stigma surrounding marrying someone for money, but I believe that one can’t marry someone without first considering their financial situation. It matters much less how much someone takes home at the end of a pay period than how they manage that …
Seguir leyendo 31-year-old girlfriend making $100K expects boyfriend to pay her $40K in credit card debt, $60K in car loans, and $20K in student loans: ‘You’ll take care of my debt.’
37-year-old wife inherits $2M from grandmother, refuses to help her husband pay off $150K in debt: ‘Over the last 2 years, I’ve given her about $200K’
I hate to say it, but one of the major perks of being married is that you get to combine your finances. If you marry the right person, this allows you to increase both of your net worths and work towards your financial goals as a unit, rather than as two separately acting entities. If …
Seguir leyendo 37-year-old wife inherits $2M from grandmother, refuses to help her husband pay off $150K in debt: ‘Over the last 2 years, I’ve given her about $200K’
26-year-old girlfriend forbids boyfriend from accepting a job that’d double his income to $60K because she doesn’t want him working on weekends: ‘We have lived together for 8 years and she said we are done if I accept this job’
It’s extremely common for couples to break up due to one partner getting a new, life-altering job. If your boyfriend of three years gets a job across the country and he wants to move, but you don’t, that’s a highly valid reason to reconsider continuing the relationship. Sure, you could wait six months after he …
Seguir leyendo 26-year-old girlfriend forbids boyfriend from accepting a job that’d double his income to $60K because she doesn’t want him working on weekends: ‘We have lived together for 8 years and she said we are done if I accept this job’
41-year-old mom and her 20-year-old son move in with her 38-year-old boyfriend, son constantly disrespects boyfriend and refuses to do chores or pay rent: ‘He acts like he’s doing me a favor by just existing here’
Have you ever seen the Reddit post that goes a little something like this? «I’m a 25-year-old man who recently started dating a 50-year old lady. Her 30-year-old son refuses to call me «dad» and won’t give me the respect I deserve. How do I get him to change?» Obviously, this post and all variants …
Seguir leyendo 41-year-old mom and her 20-year-old son move in with her 38-year-old boyfriend, son constantly disrespects boyfriend and refuses to do chores or pay rent: ‘He acts like he’s doing me a favor by just existing here’