I’ve never understood the phenomenon of «stay-at-home girlfriends.» It’s one thing to be a stay-at-home mom who has a lot to do all day long for child rearing, but if you have no job and no kids, what are you doing all day? One might argue that cleaning and taking care of the household are …
Seguir leyendo Boyfriend lets girlfriend live in his parents apartment by herself rent free, gives her an allowance that is 56% of his monthly paycheck: ‘She has no money saved, she has nothing but debt’
Categoría:toxic relationship
33-year-old dad plans to break up with his toxic girlfriend of 3 years while his 5 and 9-year-old kids are staying with their mom for summer vacation: ‘I want my kids to live in a house that doesn’t silently revolve around managing someone else’s mood.’
It is exhausting living with somebody who cannot regulate their emotions. We expect kids of all ages to be able to refrain from whining and to pretend to be happy when they’re sad, but those standards are not always as high for their adult counterparts. Many adults just let whatever emotion they’re feeling take over, …
Seguir leyendo 33-year-old dad plans to break up with his toxic girlfriend of 3 years while his 5 and 9-year-old kids are staying with their mom for summer vacation: ‘I want my kids to live in a house that doesn’t silently revolve around managing someone else’s mood.’
27-year-old boyfriend gets insecure that his 24-year-old girlfriend makes more money than him, lies about her career plans to his parents: ‘It’s just temporary until she can find something less demanding so we can start thinking about our future’
I never understood why someone would feel insecure about their partner making more money than they do. I figure the more cash that you have as a couple, the better. I would never arbitrarily wish that my partner were doing worse off than me financially, because I want the best things for my partner. If …
Seguir leyendo 27-year-old boyfriend gets insecure that his 24-year-old girlfriend makes more money than him, lies about her career plans to his parents: ‘It’s just temporary until she can find something less demanding so we can start thinking about our future’
31-year-old wife pays $700 a month to rent an apartment with her husband, only to discover that her husband’s mom owns the apartment and his name is on the deed: ‘[He] let me keep paying rent for 2 years like a clueless roommate’
Everyone has a different opinion regarding marriage and money. Some people think that couples should combine all their assets into one account, without one of the partners ever having their own money. Others want their husband or wife to split costs totally down the middle, going halfsies on just about everything, and never combining finances. …
Seguir leyendo 31-year-old wife pays $700 a month to rent an apartment with her husband, only to discover that her husband’s mom owns the apartment and his name is on the deed: ‘[He] let me keep paying rent for 2 years like a clueless roommate’
‘You are signing up for a lifetime of being babysat by a jealous manchild’: 27-year-old tells her best friend that she shouldn’t marry her fiancé during her bachelorette trip, gets blamed for the wedding getting called off
Have you ever have to bite your tongue about your friend’s horrible romantic partner? We’ve all been in that situation where your bestie is dating someone that you can’t help but dislike, but how you deal with that dislike says a lot about who you are as a person. For most of us, we will …
Seguir leyendo ‘You are signing up for a lifetime of being babysat by a jealous manchild’: 27-year-old tells her best friend that she shouldn’t marry her fiancé during her bachelorette trip, gets blamed for the wedding getting called off
‘Mothers are unique, you either have one or you don’t. Wives can be replaced’: 36-year-old dad says he prioritizes his mom 1st, kids 2nd, and wife 3rd, claims his wife is overreacting when she considers divorce over that
It’s easy to fall into fantastical thinking patterns. I recently got into the habit of letting my imagination run wild, imagining all sorts of horrible situations, including but not limited to my friend’s funerals and humiliating public rejections. I eventually had to force myself to stop engaging in this line of thinking because it was …
Seguir leyendo ‘Mothers are unique, you either have one or you don’t. Wives can be replaced’: 36-year-old dad says he prioritizes his mom 1st, kids 2nd, and wife 3rd, claims his wife is overreacting when she considers divorce over that
32-year-old woman breaks up with her 34-year-old boyfriend of 5 years after he refuses to propose, giving his brother $1500 for his birthday instead of buying a ring: ‘He told me that he would propose before the end of the year. It’s been over 2 years’
Do any of y’all remember that old Twitter trend, #WasteHisTime2016? This hashtag brought single women who wanted to waste men’s time together, joking about the various ways they could do so. While it’s funny to joke about asking a guy if he’s good with his hands and then forcing him to put together an IKEA …
Seguir leyendo 32-year-old woman breaks up with her 34-year-old boyfriend of 5 years after he refuses to propose, giving his brother $1500 for his birthday instead of buying a ring: ‘He told me that he would propose before the end of the year. It’s been over 2 years’
36-year-old boyfriend insists he and his girlfriend share a room with dude she’s never met on Vegas tip, won’t allow her to buy her own room: ‘I would rather you cancel your reservations if you don’t want to do Vegas the way I want you to’
Sharing a room with someone on vacation is not always easy. Sure, you might make sacrifices so you and your pals can go on a trip together, but you’re probably going to be picky about who that is. You’re sharing a bathroom with them, a space with them, and sleeping in the same room. That’s …
Seguir leyendo 36-year-old boyfriend insists he and his girlfriend share a room with dude she’s never met on Vegas tip, won’t allow her to buy her own room: ‘I would rather you cancel your reservations if you don’t want to do Vegas the way I want you to’
32-year-old stepdad ends marriage with his widow wife when she and her 12 and 13-year-old kids continually give him the cold shoulder: ‘Her priority was spending time with her late husband’s parents and siblings’
You literally never know how a marriage will shake out. Many singles are advised to be extremely careful about whom they marry because that is the most important choice they’ll ever make in their life. But marrying someone upstanding, attractive, hard working, and happy doesn’t guarantee that it’s all going to work out for both …
Seguir leyendo 32-year-old stepdad ends marriage with his widow wife when she and her 12 and 13-year-old kids continually give him the cold shoulder: ‘Her priority was spending time with her late husband’s parents and siblings’
29-year-old man refuses to keep sending money to his partner’s mother, who requests large amounts of cash for countless luxury items: ‘This constant financial support is draining’
Making good money in this economy is a feat, so pat yourself on the back if you’ve got a chunky savings account with a good amount of zeroes. In relationships, when do you start sharing finances? Do you keep your cash separate until one of you decides to put a ring on the other’s finger, …
Seguir leyendo 29-year-old man refuses to keep sending money to his partner’s mother, who requests large amounts of cash for countless luxury items: ‘This constant financial support is draining’