Entitled friend brings vegetarian cousin to dinner with one hour’s notice, then demands host make him a separate meal: ‘The whole dinner went bad after that’

When an unexpected plus-one comes with unexpected dietary demands. Hosting dinner already means planning, shopping, cooking, and hoping everyone enjoys themselves. This host thought she had everything covered until a friend announced a last-minute guest who happened to be vegetarian. With no warning and a full meal already prepared, she refused to cook again, but …
Seguir leyendo Entitled friend brings vegetarian cousin to dinner with one hour’s notice, then demands host make him a separate meal: ‘The whole dinner went bad after that’

Couple refuses to spend Easter with family after family demands they sleep on the couch while visiting: ‘I would rather pitch a tent in the backyard’

If you invite me to stay at your place and then offer me your living room couch while others stay in the guest room… Don’t be surprised if I tell you I’m not coming. When you have guests over, it’s important to make them feel comfortable and welcome. And if you can’t offer them even …
Seguir leyendo Couple refuses to spend Easter with family after family demands they sleep on the couch while visiting: ‘I would rather pitch a tent in the backyard’

Mom refuses to make a different dinner for her 15-year-old exchange student: ‘When Brenna saw the meal provided, she was upset that it wasn’t pasta.’

Is it bratty to ask your host-mom to make you a specific meal after she’s already cooked a different one for the rest of the family?  Who among us didn’t have a bratty moment or two during our teenage years? The brattiest moment of my teenage life had to be the morning I tried to …
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Student helps best friend’s family with Thanksgiving prep, is unexpectedly confronted by her friend’s mom for not contributing to groceries for the «potluck-style» meal, despite never being asked to cover costs: ‘Her behavior felt really inhospitable’

If you’ve had the same tradition for a few years, and elements change, it’s important to be prepared for those changes to avoid any ‘awkwardness’ or confrontation. This grad student has been helping her bestie’s family prep their Thanksgiving dinner for the last few years. Normally, taking responsibility for cooking a dish or two helps …
Seguir leyendo Student helps best friend’s family with Thanksgiving prep, is unexpectedly confronted by her friend’s mom for not contributing to groceries for the «potluck-style» meal, despite never being asked to cover costs: ‘Her behavior felt really inhospitable’

Family demands to stay at couple’s one-bedroom apartment for Christmas, husband agrees behind wife’s back, who refuses to give in: ‘Space is already so limited’

Christmas is the time for family, and we all know that can be both a blessing and a curse. It mostly depends on your family and your relationship with them. For example, as much as you might love your family, inviting them over and having them spend 11 days in your tiny, one-bedroom apartment sounds …
Seguir leyendo Family demands to stay at couple’s one-bedroom apartment for Christmas, husband agrees behind wife’s back, who refuses to give in: ‘Space is already so limited’

‘I feel like I have no peace in my own home’: Host refuses to accommodate freeloading friend who arrives for a 13-day visit, demanding airport pickup, daily rides, free meals, and control of every shared space

Some houseguests arrive with flowers, others with a suitcase of demands. The childhood pal of a brand-new driver lands firmly in the second group. Twelve months of warning produced zero planning, so when the pal shows up the same week the homeowner’s mother faces risky surgery, chaos moves in. The friend insists on free airport …
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‘Make sure the house is spotless by 5 pm’: Guests cancel their $2000/night Airbnb reservation after the hosts demand they clean up after the previous guest

Home-sharing apps have gotten out of control. People saw the opportunity to get rich quickly with a ramshackle house in a decent area, and realized that they could flip an insane profit off the backs of their guests. Naturally, riding the coattails of the hard work of the guests staying in their house. Because when …
Seguir leyendo ‘Make sure the house is spotless by 5 pm’: Guests cancel their $2000/night Airbnb reservation after the hosts demand they clean up after the previous guest

Cash-grabbing Dublin host ends up indebted €235 to their customers after getting caught trying to force them to cancel their €115/night accommodation for St. Patrick’s weekend: ‘And I got a free upgrade’

We live in a society that’s obsessed with a good grift.  In line with the cash-grabbing opportunists and your average snake oil salesman, grifters come in many forms, but when it comes to travel, you can always count on your home-share host to be the capitalistic version of themselves. Like the worst landlord of all …
Seguir leyendo Cash-grabbing Dublin host ends up indebted €235 to their customers after getting caught trying to force them to cancel their €115/night accommodation for St. Patrick’s weekend: ‘And I got a free upgrade’

Houseguests learn host took day off to relax after their stay, so they extend trip only to get kicked out 11 hours before flight: ‘The day off is for me to rest, not to be their host’

Being a host is exhausting. Even if you love your guests, even if they’re your lifelong besties, there’s a special kind of burnout that comes from prepping your house like it’s going on Airbnb, being full-time tour guide, and turning your entire routine upside down to keep everyone comfortable and entertained. And when they finally …
Seguir leyendo Houseguests learn host took day off to relax after their stay, so they extend trip only to get kicked out 11 hours before flight: ‘The day off is for me to rest, not to be their host’

66-year-old woman gets called a ‘doormat’ after she complains about entitled family and friends who use her guest room but never say thank you, she refuses to keep hosting: ‘I got the message’

Some of us go about our day with full acceptance of the fact that we cannot say ‘no’ to other people. Whether it’s because we truly enjoy making other people happy, or because we are classic cases of people pleasers, sometimes you just have to accept that this is who you are, and you are …
Seguir leyendo 66-year-old woman gets called a ‘doormat’ after she complains about entitled family and friends who use her guest room but never say thank you, she refuses to keep hosting: ‘I got the message’