Grandma cooks for family once a month, mom complains it’s never enough to feed them all: ‘It’s barely enough for 2 people’

Is it wrong to have constructive criticism towards a kind gesture? Family is nothing but not complicated, and the ways in which relatives try to maintain relationships and support each other are always going to vary according to the abilities and desires of everybody involved. When there are kids in the picture, trying to develop …
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Mom complains about Boomer grandma only agreeing to watch kids so long as she never has to do it again: ‘She says I need a reliable back up plan because she may bail’

Are all boomers bad grandparents? A lot of people like to hand-wring about the fact that the birth rate is falling, but a lot of those people also don’t like to take into account that those parents pumping up the numbers back in the day also wouldn’t have had as many kids if they had …
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Mother-in-law ruins Disneyland vacation for 8-year-old, mom considers cutting her off despite losing inheritance: ‘I had a feeling I would regret it’

What is the point at which it is acceptable to cut off a family member? If you’re lucky, your family is one of the greatest blessings you have in life, but not everybody gets to experience that. In fact, a large number of people struggle to find much that is positive about their close relatives. …
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Mom buys stand mixer for daughter-in-law, gets upset when she gives it back because she plans a 12 person Thanksgiving in her apartment: ‘she’s saying She isn’t doing Thanksgiving at all if it’s not at our place’

Often the Thanksgiving drama begins long before the turkey is put in the oven. This is the holiday that is renowned for being a time that is important to spend with family, for better or for worse. A 2020 YouGov survey suggests that up to 61% of Americans consider their families to be the number …
Seguir leyendo Mom buys stand mixer for daughter-in-law, gets upset when she gives it back because she plans a 12 person Thanksgiving in her apartment: ‘she’s saying She isn’t doing Thanksgiving at all if it’s not at our place’

Sister-in-law babysits niece for $400 biweekly, protests when mom docks her pay for selling their $600 stroller: ‘I told her it was a loan’

Why did she think she had the right to sell somebody else’s property? The belief that family helps family is rarely more important than when it comes to childcare. One of the most valuable resources that a parent can have is somebody who is willing to occasionally look after their kids for free or at …
Seguir leyendo Sister-in-law babysits niece for $400 biweekly, protests when mom docks her pay for selling their $600 stroller: ‘I told her it was a loan’

Sister pays for sibling’s flight to rehearsal dinner, gets annoyed when she misses it to receive a $1200 airline voucher: ‘She got exactly what she paid for’

Is compensation required for missing out on the memories? It is tricky when you have family who live all over the place. Going to see one another isn’t usually something you can just do on a whim; it requires real investment and planning. It makes the opportunities when you get to see each other even …
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Dad and stepmom renovate rural cabin, stepmom protests when 26-year-old stepson wants to host girlfriend’s family there without them: ‘He never has time to spend with us’

Who gets access to a family vacation home? Not everybody has the privilege of owning another house specifically to get away from it all, so it is no surprise that those who do can find themselves becoming more popular with their friends and family. They want the benefit of a free vacation and are more …
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26-year-old refuses to babysit his older brother’s kids after he dumps them on his porch unannounced: ‘He [says] I should be grateful that he trusts me’

Family is family and all that, but at some point you just gotta put your foot down, don’t you? Because family has a way of turning one sibling’s success into a debt that everyone else feels entitled to collect.  In this family, the child who figured life out becomes the safety net for the one …
Seguir leyendo 26-year-old refuses to babysit his older brother’s kids after he dumps them on his porch unannounced: ‘He [says] I should be grateful that he trusts me’

A 26-year-old woman gets invited to a family birthday dinner, ends up babysitting 6 of her relatives’ kids while their parents relax: ‘I came here to enjoy dinner too’

When does «keep an eye on the kids» turn into an unpaid babysitting shift for the entire family? I can’t tell you how much this story resonates with me. In my family, we’re eight cousins: four are older, and the other four came 12 years later. That means that my fellow older batch and I …
Seguir leyendo A 26-year-old woman gets invited to a family birthday dinner, ends up babysitting 6 of her relatives’ kids while their parents relax: ‘I came here to enjoy dinner too’

Mom spends daughter’s $5000 inheritance, she demands it back to pay for school: ‘She says she spent it on raising us’

Does a parent ever have the right to spend their child’s inheritance? It is not uncommon for parents and their kids to fall out over money, especially when those kids don’t get an inheritance they were promised. More than ever, life is expensive, and many younger adults rely on the promise that their older relatives …
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