There are a million ways someone can accidentally mess up their kid, and no one in their right mind is under the impression that parenting is easy in any way, but some things are just common sense. Making sure your kid has a healthy diet and is knowledgable about nutrition is good. Being a weird dictator about food and prohibiting your kid from enjoying a slice of cake on a special occasion? Not so good. When one redditor asked r/AmItheAsshole whether she was in the wrong for demanding «consequences» for a little kid who shared his birthday cake with her son, Reddit’s answer was a resounding «yes.»