Marriage isn’t always all it’s cracked up to be. It’s magical and wonderful if you’re with the right person, but it can be devastating if you make the wrong choice. The crazy thing about it is you can rarely gauge whether someone will be a good husband or wife before you’re married. There are married couples who did everything right, waited an appropriate amount of time before getting married, lived together before getting married, and still ended up getting divorced. Sometimes, you don’t realize a relationship does not work until you’re extremely far into it. 

When a marriage is on the up and outs, lots of people have an «Ah Ha» moment where they realize precisely what is wrong with their partnership. Redditors who had such a moment took to Reddit to share the dreadful moments they realized they were in too deep with Mr. or Mrs. Wrong.