As someone who has not yet experienced the joy of having children, keeping a tiny and fragile human alive and out of harm’s way seems like an impossible feat, especially when the kid seems fascinated by total destruction and dangerous situations. So hats off to all the exhausted parents out there who struggle every day. Your job is a thankless one. We’ve rounded up a bunch of painfully relatable parenting memes for all the moms and dads out there who desperately need a break.