Why does relaxing, lounging, and just getting some much-needed R&R make us feel kind of, well, guilty? The people who assign our responsibilities and command society are always whispering in our ears and telling us that everyone should be super busy –  whether the business is due to employment, partying, or even just milling about feeling important.  Despite what they may tell you, or want you to believe, we all deserve to spend our free time the way we want to. If you desire to eating junk food all night, have a little. If you want to spend six hours watching a true crime program with your hand in your pants? Who the hell is stopping you?  And if you want to scroll through memes, enjoy this serving on us.