As the official job interviews of love, first impressions are a vital part of going on a date. Many who are eager to impress somebody try to be on their best behavior. This isn’t the same for everybody, though—some daters subscribe to the school of thought that you should let it all hang out as soon as possible to see if a potential partner will accept the real you. It’s unorthodox, but sometimes taking a risk will pay off.

This doesn’t seem to be what happened with one TikToker who went viral for all the wrong reasons after being documented on her date. Asking him to film her every time he did something that gave him the ick, viewers seemed to be even more grossed out than he was. Being yourself is a great idea up until the point where it starts inconveniencing others with no good reason for it.