Splitting the check can be a nightmare. There’s always that one friend who wants to divide it evenly, even though Jessica got a porterhouse and Kyle got a side salad. Or heaven forbid you’re the person who offers to put your card down. Having to hunt people down to pay you back can not only drain your bank account, but dampen friendships. It can be so awkward to talk about money with friends, that sometimes I just stay silent and hope it all comes out in the wash. My relationships are worth more than an extra couple bucks. 

A Redditor recently shared a story of their friend, whom they were hosting for the weekend (which we all know can be a burden), who slapped a $1 Venmo request down for a muffin they had purchased. Obviously it’s not about the money at that point, so nickel-and-diming feels unnecessary. And of course, commenters had a lot to say…