After receiving a series of unhinged text messages from a classmate, TikToker @mb2chainz posted screenshots to expose the creepiness of unsolicited advances. ‘Are men okay?’ @mb2chainz wrote in the caption. Many people in the comments likened the wall-texter to fictional character Joe Goldberg, the sociopathic protagonist from the series You.

‘Why do men think they can monologue to us against our will?’ one TikToker wondered in the comments. Why, indeed? Maybe these ‘nice guy‘ types view women as NPCs —all you need to do is pick the correct dialogue option to level up your relationship status. Sorry fellas, that’s not how it works.