Getting engaged to marry the love of your life is supposed to be one of the most exciting moments ever. Unfortunately, if your engagement is riddled with major scandal, it takes away from the bliss and beauty of something that is supposed to be magical. One woman took to Quora to open up about the drama she’s dealing with in her new engagement. 

She explains that she’s engaged to a man who is already married to someone else. Although it doesn’t make a lot of sense at first glance, she goes on to mention that «he hasn’t filed for divorce yet.» In other words, she’s holding out hope that he’s going to file for divorce… eventually. Since he hasn’t filed yet, it’s unclear if this man ever will. 

To make matters worse, he wants her to quit her job since they work at the same place! Responders on Quora are disturbed by the situation for more reasons than one: First of all, no one believes she should quit her job for this shady guy. Secondly, no one thinks she should stay engaged in such a problematic relationship at all!