Everyone is allowed to make different choices in life. That’s why they are called choices. There’s no prescription on how to live life, and there shouldn’t be. If one person decides that their passion in life is delivering pizzas and another wants to be the youngest person to graduate medical school, then more power to both of them. We have free will, and we have one life. It’s on us to do exactly what we want to do with it, no matter what anyone thinks about our decisions. 

This is especially true when it comes to having children. Let’s say you feel like everyone is pressuring you to have kids, but you’re not ready. Who cares what they think? It’s your life, and it’s not a decision you can take back. You better not be pressured into it, because you might resent those people if you end up regretting it.