When it comes to finding a life partner, the person you attach yourself to romantically is only a part of the story. Most of the time, being in a committed relationship means that you have to be comfortable with your partner’s family as well. In-law relationships have a reputation for being difficult, and they can easily become a headache in an otherwise happy relationship if a parent decides you aren’t the right fit for their child.

In situations like this, people may try to avoid interacting with in-laws as much as possible, but the reality is that it is sometimes unavoidable to deal with them and the drama they may bring up. The crucial point is being in a relationship that is supportive enough for the couple to work as a team and point out unfair treatment where it is appropriate. Family resentments do not necessarily have to ruin the right connection.