33-year-old mom forces her 14-year-old insomniac sister to watch her 3-month-old baby at home alone while she works all day: ‘Both my parents work, so I’m left alone with the baby for hours almost every day.’

Many families cannot afford to take care of their young children without working, nor can they afford to pay someone to do it for them. They need to work, and they need someone else to watch their baby all day for free, otherwise they won’t have enough money to live. Kids don’t spend their childhoods …
Seguir leyendo 33-year-old mom forces her 14-year-old insomniac sister to watch her 3-month-old baby at home alone while she works all day: ‘Both my parents work, so I’m left alone with the baby for hours almost every day.’

‘Girl, what? I’m not a daycare’: Mom dumps her 9 and 6-year-old at the neighbor’s house unannounced, expecting them to babysit for free because they have no kids and ‘no real responsibilities’

Moms and dads sometimes rely on their community to help raise their kids. Through neighborhood parks, friendly grannies own the street, and pop up lemonade stands, there are tons of ways to get your kiddo out into the community, but the mom in this next story had another idea about what her community could provide …
Seguir leyendo ‘Girl, what? I’m not a daycare’: Mom dumps her 9 and 6-year-old at the neighbor’s house unannounced, expecting them to babysit for free because they have no kids and ‘no real responsibilities’

Babysitter left with her friend’s 4-year-old for days after the entitled mom bails on her pickup time, she ends up getting sent the bill afterwards: ‘She definitely owes me’

Babysitting implies an end time. When your friend asks—no, begs—you to watch their tyrannical toddler for a few hours, you might only oblige because of the finite nature of the favor. If all of a sudden, your friend decided to cosplay as a responsibility-free, single person for a few days, you might start to rethink …
Seguir leyendo Babysitter left with her friend’s 4-year-old for days after the entitled mom bails on her pickup time, she ends up getting sent the bill afterwards: ‘She definitely owes me’

17-year-old refuses to keep babysitting 7-year-old, 5-year-old, and 1-year-old following their mom’s reaction to her husband leaving: ‘She was more mean and she would pay me less’

There are few jobs in such high demand as childcare, and few that are so often poorly paid and with terrible working conditions. It doesn’t help that it is often younger women who are filling the babysitting roles that so many busy parents look for.  While it is true that many parents despair over finding …
Seguir leyendo 17-year-old refuses to keep babysitting 7-year-old, 5-year-old, and 1-year-old following their mom’s reaction to her husband leaving: ‘She was more mean and she would pay me less’

23-year-old refuses to cancel her college graduation trip because her 32-year-old sister’s babysitter canceled before her and her husband’s anniversary trip: ‘She got super upset and said I was being selfish and immature’

It’s so common to see married people prioritized above single people that we don’t even give it a second thought. We are especially trained to prioritize married people who have kids over single people who don’t. Single people’s lives are seen as less serious and important than those of married people. They are expected to …
Seguir leyendo 23-year-old refuses to cancel her college graduation trip because her 32-year-old sister’s babysitter canceled before her and her husband’s anniversary trip: ‘She got super upset and said I was being selfish and immature’

11-year-old asks 20-year-old babysitter for a cup of coffee, babysitter asks her dad if she’s allowed to have it, leaving dad enraged that he questioned her: ‘Did you think my daughter is a liar?’

Kids lie all the time. It doesn’t matter if they’ve been in a religious institution since birth that instructs them not to lie; they will lie about something. Heck, I know people who grew up Catholic and lied about sins they didn’t commit so that they could have something to talk about in confession! It …
Seguir leyendo 11-year-old asks 20-year-old babysitter for a cup of coffee, babysitter asks her dad if she’s allowed to have it, leaving dad enraged that he questioned her: ‘Did you think my daughter is a liar?’

Stepmom insists 16-year-old stepson is needed for babysitting his half-siblings while his dad is out of town for 3 weeks out of the month: ‘I never wanted to be there when dad wasn’t’

For many people, hanging out with extended family can be a bit of a drag. You don’t need to have a real problem with your dad’s second wife and her kids to not want to spend a lot of time with them, especially if he hasn’t made much of an effort to spend time with …
Seguir leyendo Stepmom insists 16-year-old stepson is needed for babysitting his half-siblings while his dad is out of town for 3 weeks out of the month: ‘I never wanted to be there when dad wasn’t’

Parents refuse to pay their 15-year-old babysitter the full amount they owed her because they thought her tank top was inappropriate: ‘$50 does not feel like enough money for 2 kids and 7 hours’

Being a teenage girl is all about adults constantly telling you that your clothes are «inappropriate,» even when they are nothing of the sort. I do not envy the days in my life when I was dress-coded by my nefarious theater teacher for the crime of wearing solid black leggings to the 8th grade. He …
Seguir leyendo Parents refuse to pay their 15-year-old babysitter the full amount they owed her because they thought her tank top was inappropriate: ‘$50 does not feel like enough money for 2 kids and 7 hours’

Employee leaves his 7 and 10-year-old kids at warehouse, expecting contractor to babysit them without asking him to do so: ‘I immediately call him and tell him to take them with you or I call DCFS’

What do you do when your kids are on spring break and you can’t take a week off work to watch them? That’s a problem a lot of parents are dealing with right now, and there’s not one clear solution. If it were the 1980s, you would leave your kids at home and tell them …
Seguir leyendo Employee leaves his 7 and 10-year-old kids at warehouse, expecting contractor to babysit them without asking him to do so: ‘I immediately call him and tell him to take them with you or I call DCFS’

Childfree 30-year-old refuses to babysit for sister with 3 kids under 7 after she tells her she doesn’t know real stress: ‘Did you really just call me a free trial version of a human being?’

One of the biggest reasons for the frequently frustrating divide between parents and childless people is how each group perceives the other. The childfree often look at those with children as crazy for making a decision that upends their lives so much, giving them a sense of entitlement that is unfair. Meanwhile, moms and dads …
Seguir leyendo Childfree 30-year-old refuses to babysit for sister with 3 kids under 7 after she tells her she doesn’t know real stress: ‘Did you really just call me a free trial version of a human being?’