Not many people will ever find themselves in a position where they can turn down multiple job offers in the search for something better, but vetting a potential employer before taking a job should be something everyone is able to do. And when the job is an especially dangerous one, making sure you’re not walking into a shitshow is imperative. This is what redditor u/Fun-Construction-112 didn’t quite understand when his engineer girlfriend kept turning down jobs that were offering six figures. He even accused her of self-sabotaging to delay getting a new job. r/AmItheAsshole set him straight and in the end, OP admitted his faults with grace and maturity. Keep scrolling for the whole story.