Even the happiest of couples can find that their wedding is a nerve-wracking experience. After all, it is a day where all of the focus is on you and your relationship, while having to cater to countless guests, and also attempting to make sure the whole thing goes smoothly. It is enough to make even the most level-headed of individuals get stressed out, and it is a great irony of what is supposed to be one of the best days of your life.

It makes sense, then, that if the relationship that the big day is based around isn’t a solid one, the wedding is probably going to show some ominous signs of where the couple is headed. Generally speaking, these warnings aren’t even small ones, but that doesn’t stop the nuptials from going ahead and things from ending disastrously. A number of wedding-goers and even a few brides and grooms themselves got together to share what they thought were some of the biggest wedding red flags, and many of them were pretty cringe-inducing.