Do any of y’all remember that old Twitter trend, #WasteHisTime2016? This hashtag brought single women who wanted to waste men’s time together, joking about the various ways they could do so. While it’s funny to joke about asking a guy if he’s good with his hands and then forcing him to put together an IKEA dresser for 6 hours, it’s less fun when someone actually gets their time majorly wasted in a relationship that’s never going to go anywhere. I know people who have been strung along for years in relationships, only to get broken up with, losing out on precious time when they’re young and healthy. I don’t mean to be presumptuous, but if you don’t know if you want to spend the rest of your life with someone after being together for 5 years, you might be participating in Waste His/Her/Their time 2025, and that’s not good.