What if something as simple as a pillow threatened your relationship? Room decor is a personal thing. It can make a difference in how we feel about ourselves and our space. If you don’t feel comfortable in your own home, then there is a bigger issue at play here. Your home needs to be somewhere where you can decompress and get rid of the anxieties of your day. If it’s a hostile environment, then you need to do your best to get help to get out of it. Maybe you put a little effort into cleaning or redecorating, or maybe you try to save money to move out.