She has waited for 14 years, and she’s not waiting any longer! 

You would think that at this point, it would be common knowledge that becoming a parent is a big responsibility that shouldn’t be taken lightly. It’s not something that you should do because there’s nothing else better to do, especially if you’re not in a stable family unit with the person you’re having a baby with. There are a ton of young couples who might not feel ready to have a baby, but they get their act together, get married, and work their tucuses off to make sure their little accident has a good life. It’s not easy to be a good parent, but if you find yourself in the situation where you’re going to have a baby out of wedlock, you absolutely should not plan on abandoning the kid and doing nothing to support them financially. If you love your Oops baby like you claim you do, you will do everything in your power to make sure they grow up in your home, and that your home is a loving, caring environment for them. If you can’t promise that, you’re not fit to be a parent.