Being called lazy by someone who has never once made their own lunch sounds like an eye-opening experience 

Here’s how it usually goes. One person is working, cooking, cleaning, keeping the whole household running. The other person is somewhere in the background, probably still asleep, definitely not helping, yet somehow feels qualified to hand out productivity reviews. Then one day, the responsible one forgets a single tiny task. Doesn’t matter what it is, a chore, a favor, whatever. Suddenly it becomes a whole referendum on their work ethic. «You can’t do this one thing?» Sir, she has been doing everything else for months.