Would you be able to live with a roommate who thinks that this is acceptable?
It can be really inconvenient to date when you have roommates. Your roommates might get annoyed that your partner is sleeping over most nights of the week, using up all of the water, and sitting on the communal couch all the time. On the flip side, you might get annoyed that your roommate’s partner is taking over your life. You overhear them doing stuff every night, and while you’re happy that they’re having a good time, you also want to get some shuteye! Some people will specifically request single roommates because they hate it when people’s partners come over. Others will specifically refrain from dating people with roommates because they don’t want to deal with the drama, which is a totally understandable stance, especially when you’re in your 30s and tired of roommate debates.
As someone who has had a situation where my roommate’s boyfriend brought an insane situation into my house, I have so much empathy for the girl in this story. She was just trying to get some sleep before her 5:30 AM shift, which was probably already difficult to manage, when her roommate’s boyfriend decided he needed to perform his DJ set loudly for the entire apartment to hear after midnight. Did I mention that this all happened on a Tuesday night?