Girlfriend making $40K insists that boyfriend making $75K pay for all of their expenses and dates: ‘She said that since I make more, I should just cover it all. She even brought up how her friend’s boyfriend pays for all their trips.’

Paying for things in the early stages of a relationship is always tricky. It feels pretty unromantic to have to Venmo a date $16 for sushi, even if it’s technically paying for precisely what you ate. Many couples have a «I’ll get you this time, you’ll get me next time» dynamic that is usually pretty …
Seguir leyendo Girlfriend making $40K insists that boyfriend making $75K pay for all of their expenses and dates: ‘She said that since I make more, I should just cover it all. She even brought up how her friend’s boyfriend pays for all their trips.’

Youngest brother refuses to pay his 50-year-old brother’s $1150 rent bill because he and his 37-year-old wife refuse to get jobs: ‘I’m the youngest of 4 brothers, and currently the only one employed’

When are you obliged to pay your family member’s rent? In basically all circumstances, the answer is «never,» but of course, there are exceptions. If you own four fully paid-off properties and your mom is about to get evicted from a crummy one-bedroom apartment, you probably should at least offer to help her out. Unless …
Seguir leyendo Youngest brother refuses to pay his 50-year-old brother’s $1150 rent bill because he and his 37-year-old wife refuse to get jobs: ‘I’m the youngest of 4 brothers, and currently the only one employed’

Mom pressures 18-year-old daughter to give her 20-year-old brother $2700 to cover his rent: ‘I don’t believe I’ll see that money again’

Just yesterday, me and my roommate were discussing people who live with their parents into their twenties. We both expressed that although we love our parents, we would rather «throw away» our money living in Bushwick USA rather than live in our parents basements in order to save money. The topic of conversation turned towards …
Seguir leyendo Mom pressures 18-year-old daughter to give her 20-year-old brother $2700 to cover his rent: ‘I don’t believe I’ll see that money again’

‘Sounds like he lost his 2K and wanted more’: Man wins cruise jackpot of $10k and gives $2k to brother, but unsatisfied brother demands more

When you’re gambling at a casino, your mind is bound to wander to all the stuff you would spend your earnings on. You haven’t won anything yet but you’re daydreaming about it. You plan that you would take everyone in your group out to dinner and let them buy whatever they wanted to. If you’re …
Seguir leyendo ‘Sounds like he lost his 2K and wanted more’: Man wins cruise jackpot of $10k and gives $2k to brother, but unsatisfied brother demands more

Woman lets newly-single sister stay with her rent-free, she sleeps until 1pm and get angry when sister makes her 7 and 4-year-olds breakfast: ‘Wake up and take care of your […] kids’

Everybody goes through tough times here and there. We wouldn’t be human if we didn’t. We all have moments when we need a little extra support from those around us. And if you haven’t had that yet, it’s coming for you. We’re allowed to lean on each other when we need to. Plus, in my …
Seguir leyendo Woman lets newly-single sister stay with her rent-free, she sleeps until 1pm and get angry when sister makes her 7 and 4-year-olds breakfast: ‘Wake up and take care of your […] kids’

‘It’s started to feel very one-sided’: Parents refuse to bring gifts for nephews after their parents have never returned the favor, face the ire of the rest of their family

Gift-giving can unfortunately inflict some drama. If you didn’t get the right gift or give it to the right person or heaven forbid you re-gifted something, you might never hear the end of it. Some people’s love language is gift-giving. The rest of us may not totally understand it, but it’s true. Some of us …
Seguir leyendo ‘It’s started to feel very one-sided’: Parents refuse to bring gifts for nephews after their parents have never returned the favor, face the ire of the rest of their family

‘So how’s your little hippie shop going?’: 50-year-old uncle calls out 25-year-old niece’s small business, calls her ‘disrespectful’ when she claps back

Sometimes being around family means that you have to defend your life’s choices all the time. Maybe you made different choices than the rest of your ranks and they make you feel bad about it. No matter how much you’re at peace with the life you made for yourself, you’re constantly on your back foot …
Seguir leyendo ‘So how’s your little hippie shop going?’: 50-year-old uncle calls out 25-year-old niece’s small business, calls her ‘disrespectful’ when she claps back

BBQ hosts surprise guests with yard work, bad mouth step daughter’s ex-husband for ditching the party: ‘[They] are now calling me names on social media and stating that I’m scared of hard work’

When you get invited to a party, odds are you expect to party. You’ve gotten up the gumption to take a shower, put on a nice outfit, and leave the house. And that takes a lot. So you’d like to be rewarded by a celebratory atmosphere. You want to know that your good efforts were …
Seguir leyendo BBQ hosts surprise guests with yard work, bad mouth step daughter’s ex-husband for ditching the party: ‘[They] are now calling me names on social media and stating that I’m scared of hard work’

26-year-old sister quits her job and moves in with brother, expects him to provide all her meals and host her rent-free indefinitely: ‘She’s a grown woman who is mooching off of your kindness’

You always want to help out family when you can. Odds are they were there for you at some point in your life and so you wanna return the favor. You love them, and you know you can always rely on each other. This is especially true if one of you is hitting a rough …
Seguir leyendo 26-year-old sister quits her job and moves in with brother, expects him to provide all her meals and host her rent-free indefinitely: ‘She’s a grown woman who is mooching off of your kindness’

55-year-old mom schedules family cruise right before her 30-year-old daughter’s grad school graduation, forcing the family to chose which event to attend: ‘Many have already said they can’t afford both’

If you were given the choice between a big, flashy vacation and attending your niece’s college graduation, which would you pick? One of the options is objectively a lot more fun for you, but the other gives you a chance to make someone you love feel appreciated and special. Attending a graduation is a lot …
Seguir leyendo 55-year-old mom schedules family cruise right before her 30-year-old daughter’s grad school graduation, forcing the family to chose which event to attend: ‘Many have already said they can’t afford both’