How can you be with someone who doesn’t value your trust and is taking such blatant advantage of you that they aren’t even trying to hide it? 

A relationship doesn’t always have to be perfect, but when your fiancée is running around town at 2 a.m. with her male coworkers (alone) while you’re left sitting unable to sleep, there may be a slight problem. The thing that makes dishonesty in a relationship even worse is the excuses that have had zero thought put into them. 

I mean, if you’re going to be disloyal, surely try to hide it better?!?

This soon-to-be married couple is heading for the rocks, actually, their boat is already sitting on the ocean floor. Deleting texts, picking up hobbies that other men like, leaving their mutual job, and still hanging out regularly. Any fiancée would be left rethinking their whole relationship and whether their partner is being fully transparent with them. 

In this case…Some vows made at the altar may have to be rewritten, because this is definitely not giving, «I vow to be faithful and true.»