Planning a group trip is never easy, but there are certainly levels to its difficulty. Planning a trip with four people is a whole different ball game than planning it with 7 or 8 people. Everyone who has done the latter has had some kind of nightmare situation as a result of it. This summer I went on my first big girls trip and disaster arose before we even showed up. My friend and I thought we would be driving with the planner of the trip to the Airbnb we were renting upstate, but we found out 3 days before the trip that we had to arrange our own transportation! I was grateful that OurBus could take us there and back for $70, but my friend was understandably upset. If she had canceled after finding that out, she could’ve found herself at the center of an AITA situation much like this one.