Should it matter to you how much money your best friend has in your bank?
The short answer to this question is no, but it might not be so easy to give a straightforward answer here.
When it comes to money and different financial states, it can be tricky to be on different pages with your best friend. When one of you has more money in the bank than the other, it can cause tension in almost every hangout you plan. All it takes is one over-the-top bill, or a random vacation you tried to plan together, and the friendship is seriously tested. It takes a really strong relationship between the two of you, and a huge lack of ego, to overcome the obstacles of the gap in your financial states.
That being said, if your best friend suddenly turns out to be a secret billionaire, it should change the way you’ve always treated each other, and you should let a large sum of money get into your head.
The fact that the 28-year-old found out that her best friend had a secret, massive inheritance from her grandfather, was not really the reason why their friendship fell apart. It was more due to the years when her best friend pretended to be broke and asked for money to pay rent, bills, and even to buy a car. Over the years, this 28-year-old has happily given her best friends thousands of dollars, thinking that she’s helping her in a time of need, when in reality, the best friend was doing just fine with all the trust funds she got from her grandfather.
When the 28-year-old turned to Reddit’s r/AmIOverreacting Subreddit, she wanted to know if people thought it was an overreaction to cut off her best friend after the discovery of the massive inheritance, especially since the best friend refused to apologize for the years of lies…