Money is a topic that we can always count on to cause strain in all kinds of close relationships. Nonetheless, it is something that has to be communicated about in many close relationships, especially with a long-term partner or spouse. When you ask people about the qualities that they seek out in a romantic partner, ‘fiscally responsible’ may not be at the top of many lists. However, it is something that can make a huge impact on how a relationship pans out.
Debt can happen to anybody for all kinds of reasons, but there is no denying it can be difficult to work through as a couple. This is doubly true when any money owed comes down to a partner’s bad choices. While many want to support their loved one, there are often limits to how much they can do that in a financial, emotional, and practical sense. At a certain point, you’re on your own.