While many of those in long-term relationships complain about them becoming boring and predictable, the reality is that all romantic partners have the ability to surprise you when you least expect it. The catch is that this surprise isn’t always going to be something you enjoy, and can indeed wind up being a relationship dealbreaker. It can be better to wish for boredom!

This is what one man seemed to think when he found out about a secret that his wife and partner of eleven years had been keeping. He found a folder of photos on her phone that were all pictures of him sleeping. Totaling 9,631 pictures, the husband freaked out and even began considering the act as grounds for divorce. When he took his issues to the internet, not everybody was so sure of the magnitude of the issue. It’s true that being with someone for a long time can make things get pretty weird.