Mom brings 2-year-old on mom friend’s childfree vacation, gets annoyed when she doesn’t want to babysit: ‘I just want a break’

Even the most dedicated parents occasionally crave time away from their kids. There’s no doubt about it: raising children, especially young ones, is round-the-clock hard work that sometimes feels like it doesn’t offer much of a reward. A mother’s love can only stretch so far when you’re already on tantrum number three of the day. …
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Single mom refuses to let her 4-year-old daughter’s friend play at her house, even though the friend’s mom has let her daughter play at her house: ‘My kid isn’t allowed over there because the mom doesn’t want to clean up the mess.’

The host mom has to clean up her daughter’s friend’s mess, and she doesn’t hear her complaining about it! What kind of playdate/sleepover family did you grow up in? Were your parents the kinds of parents who would let your friends sleep over at your house, but would never let you sleep over at anyone …
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25-year-old aunt refuses to babysit the night she has tickets to a $300 concert, despite her entitled sister’s last-minute demands: ‘Literally 2 hours before I need to leave, [she] calls me’

She bought tickets to see her favorite artists 6 months ago, but 2 hours beforehand, her sister called demanding she babysit her 5 and 3-year-old niece and nephews; prioritizing her concert, she refused Both sisters had a night of festivities planned, with a concert and a wedding to attend, but the mother’s lack of planning …
Seguir leyendo 25-year-old aunt refuses to babysit the night she has tickets to a $300 concert, despite her entitled sister’s last-minute demands: ‘Literally 2 hours before I need to leave, [she] calls me’

Single mom CC’s the entire family in an email to pressure her cousin to babysit her 2 kids while she’s vacationing, cousin refuses: ‘I’m not doing it’

A cousin was staying behind from a family vacation to watch their niece and nephew, and another mom saw that as an invitation to dump her kids onto her babysitting schedule, because what’s another two kids, am I right?  Babysitting two kids is very different than babysitting four kids. Although you’re already a slave to …
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Mom hides sister-in-law’s walking shoes while she babysits, gets offended when she leaves afterwards: ‘She said I’m disappearing for hours at a time’

One of the best forms of exercise there is involves putting one foot in front of the other. Regularly walking a reasonable distance is an activity that has innumerable benefits: it is easy, low-impact aerobic exercise, it is great for your mental and physical health, and it is a great way to discover the area …
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40-year-old refuses to give in to her 3-year-old cousin’s temper tantrums while babysitting her, mom scolds her for not giving her daughter exactly what she wants: ‘How dare you try to discipline my child?’

She’s trying to help her cousin become a functioning member of society, but her mother clearly doesn’t want that.  No parent likes to hear their child crying. There’s a reason the «cry it out» method that dominated the 20th century feels unnatural to parents: it probably is. If a newborn is crying, it’s natural to …
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21-year-old aunt babysits her nephew for free, then her BIL freaks out when her schedule changes, insinuating she loves her job more than her nephew: ‘He said this was my responsibility’

If you’re a tired parent of a 1-year-old baby, it’s not wise to scare off the only free childcare options you have in the family, but this man was too entitled to count his blessings.  Free childcare is an uncommon luxury, but when it comes to family, it’s usually treated like a given. Oftentimes, parents …
Seguir leyendo 21-year-old aunt babysits her nephew for free, then her BIL freaks out when her schedule changes, insinuating she loves her job more than her nephew: ‘He said this was my responsibility’

21-year-old starts babysitting niece once a month instead of fortnightly, gets lambasted by brother: ‘You’re a professional victim’

No sensible parent falls out with a free babysitter. While there are many valid reasons to stop using somebody as a childcare option, if a trustworthy adult is willing to watch your kids for no money, that is not an arrangement that you want to screw up. If that person happens to be a family …
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Parents demand 20-year-old daughter take 10-year-old sister everywhere with her, daughter finally puts foot down after years of babysitting: ‘I’m trying to live my own life’

Time to spread your wings… and move out of your parents’ house. Every older sibling understands that taking care of their younger brothers and sisters simply becomes part of their lives at some point. Nobody warns you, and you most definitely didn’t sign up for it, but that is just the dynamic that exists in …
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Aunt asks niece to call out of work to babysit her 7 and 13-year-olds on a Saturday, calls her out when she asks to be paid: ‘My aunt was upset and felt like I was putting money over family’

Everyone deserves to be paid for their work, but that doesn’t always happen. Sometimes we don’t get rewarded for the work we do, and that’s just the breaks. There is plenty of labor that we all have to do in a day that goes unrecognized by the world. We have to do things for ourselves …
Seguir leyendo Aunt asks niece to call out of work to babysit her 7 and 13-year-olds on a Saturday, calls her out when she asks to be paid: ‘My aunt was upset and felt like I was putting money over family’