27-year-old refuses to become guardian of his younger half sister after years of no contact and repeated family pressure: ‘I didn’t hesitate to say no. Repeatedly’

A grown man got voluntold to adopt the half-sister his family spent a decade trying to trick him into bonding with. In my personal and professional life, I’m all for responsibility. Taking it, dealing with consequences when you don’t, the whole shebang. What I don’t like, though, is when people try play catch with responsibility. …
Seguir leyendo 27-year-old refuses to become guardian of his younger half sister after years of no contact and repeated family pressure: ‘I didn’t hesitate to say no. Repeatedly’

18-year-old steals his childhood doll from his 3-year-old sister after discovering his cousin had stolen it from him and given it to his sister: ‘I really wanted her back.’

He might be the rightful owner of the doll, but his sister will not understand. If you’ve ever been lucky enough to own an American Girl Doll, you know that it’s not something to be taken lightly. Those dolls have been at least $100 since the 20th century, and they’re not the kind of toys …
Seguir leyendo 18-year-old steals his childhood doll from his 3-year-old sister after discovering his cousin had stolen it from him and given it to his sister: ‘I really wanted her back.’

Successful businessman refuses to give half his fortune to his farmer brother after a lifetime of his family favoring his brother: ‘I was sending money home regularly.’

He was pushed out of the nest early and went on to succeed against the odds. Being the favorite child is not always a good thing. In an ideal family, there would be no favorites, and parents would treat all their kids equally, but we all know that doesn’t always work in practice. Favoritism exists …
Seguir leyendo Successful businessman refuses to give half his fortune to his farmer brother after a lifetime of his family favoring his brother: ‘I was sending money home regularly.’

33-year-old man falsely claims his 31-year-old brother owes him $4k, only because his brother denied his desperate request for a loan: ‘There was no $4k loan, no agreement, nothing’

Mixing money and family is usually a recipe for disaster. Once you bring finances into the mix, the very kind gesture of loaning a loved one money turns into a cinderblock tied to your ankle, dragging you down until you drown in debt. It’s crucial to exhaust every other avenue to relieve yourself of financial …
Seguir leyendo 33-year-old man falsely claims his 31-year-old brother owes him $4k, only because his brother denied his desperate request for a loan: ‘There was no $4k loan, no agreement, nothing’

Homeowner refuses to let her homeless 31-year-old brother move into her house after he trashed it and refused to pay bills the first time he lived there: ‘I can’t handle that stress and damage again.’

You can only give someone the benefit of the doubt so many times. If you are a kind-hearted individual, it can be easy to find yourself getting taken advantage of by family members and friends who will walk over anyone to get what they want. You might see the best in everyone, and never think …
Seguir leyendo Homeowner refuses to let her homeless 31-year-old brother move into her house after he trashed it and refused to pay bills the first time he lived there: ‘I can’t handle that stress and damage again.’

Entitled brother demands family celebrate Christmas in January after his wife decides she’s too tired from work to come to dinner on Christmas Eve: ‘We’re taking the day off’

Most families don’t get together that often. If people live in different states, and sometimes even different countries, getting everyone to be together at the same place and same time is not an easy task. That’s partially why we have holidays. Thanksgivings and Christmas are classic holidays that invite families to come together again after …
Seguir leyendo Entitled brother demands family celebrate Christmas in January after his wife decides she’s too tired from work to come to dinner on Christmas Eve: ‘We’re taking the day off’

35-year-old deliberately works on Christmas Day to avoid spending Christmas with his cruel father: ‘I can finally have a Christmas that feels good and relaxed.’

Sometimes it’s better to choose your peace over making everyone else happy. There’s a great deal of expectation on adult children to spend Christmas with their families, especially if they don’t live in the same area. After all, if you only see your mom once or twice a year, you’re probably seeing her at Christmastime. …
Seguir leyendo 35-year-old deliberately works on Christmas Day to avoid spending Christmas with his cruel father: ‘I can finally have a Christmas that feels good and relaxed.’

Sister lies about brother being fired, so her brother exposes that she secretly flunked college and spent years pretending to have a degree during big family birthday: ‘[Even] her fiancé didn’t know this’

Grandpa’s birthday, everyone dressed in their best pretending everything is fine energy, and the sister decides this is the perfect moment to improvise a new origin story for a firing. Suddenly, a layoff becomes showing up tipsy to work, announced at full volume in front of extended family and a brand new girlfriend. That’s a …
Seguir leyendo Sister lies about brother being fired, so her brother exposes that she secretly flunked college and spent years pretending to have a degree during big family birthday: ‘[Even] her fiancé didn’t know this’

19-year-old refuses to give his parents and 7 younger siblings money after having supported them financially since he was 12: ‘It’s up to everyone else to make it work since it was on me from a really unfair age.’

It’s time for his parents and siblings to step up. No parent wants to ask their kid to help support the family financially. The parents who ask this of their teenage children only do so when they’re in the most desperate financial situation. They want to ensure the lights stay on, so they ask their …
Seguir leyendo 19-year-old refuses to give his parents and 7 younger siblings money after having supported them financially since he was 12: ‘It’s up to everyone else to make it work since it was on me from a really unfair age.’

Sister demands her 4 siblings contribute $10,000 to gift their late mother’s caregiver, claims she’ll take the money from their mothers’ estate if they don’t pay up: ‘She’s also keep extra money for herself.’

There’s something very shady about what’s unfolding here. Choosing the right person to be the trustee of an aging family member’s estate is of the utmost importance. You need to be able to trust that person to do right by their family member, even if it goes against their personal interests and vices. If you …
Seguir leyendo Sister demands her 4 siblings contribute $10,000 to gift their late mother’s caregiver, claims she’ll take the money from their mothers’ estate if they don’t pay up: ‘She’s also keep extra money for herself.’