Entitled birthday girl sends back the $120 her friend spent on her birthday sushi dinner because she found the celebration underwhelming: ‘I was expecting more of a proper celebration’

Not everybody wants a big to-do on their birthday. If you’re an introvert with a small friend group, a small get-together at a modest restaurant is the perfect way to commemorate being one year older. But that won’t satisfy everyone, and it’s not a crime to say exactly what kind of birthday party you want. …
Seguir leyendo Entitled birthday girl sends back the $120 her friend spent on her birthday sushi dinner because she found the celebration underwhelming: ‘I was expecting more of a proper celebration’

23-year-old refuses to participate in her company’s Christmas in July party because she doesn’t want to buy a gift for her 19-year-old coworker who she hates: ‘I just can’t justify spending money on her’

Secret Santas are fun if you’re doing them for people you want to hang out with, but they’re a pain if you have to do them for someone you have a transactional relationship with. I enjoyed participating in Secret Santa with my college friend group because we didn’t have enough money to get great gifts …
Seguir leyendo 23-year-old refuses to participate in her company’s Christmas in July party because she doesn’t want to buy a gift for her 19-year-old coworker who she hates: ‘I just can’t justify spending money on her’

5-year-old refuses to eat until his foster parents buy him a $65 toy, fellow restaurant patron insists his foster parents should give into his demand: ‘She argued I get paid to care for him and need to do whatever it takes to make sure he’s happy’

If you’ve ever watched the show Supernanny, you know how far kids will go to get their way, especially if their parents have proven time and time again that they’re pushovers. They will throw a tantrum until their parents give in, learning that bad behavior gets them exactly what they want. Until parents can stand …
Seguir leyendo 5-year-old refuses to eat until his foster parents buy him a $65 toy, fellow restaurant patron insists his foster parents should give into his demand: ‘She argued I get paid to care for him and need to do whatever it takes to make sure he’s happy’

Server shuts down mom who tried to guilt stranger into sharing her custom birthday cake with her son: ‘He’s a kid, don’t you think it would mean more to him?’

Celebrating your birthday at a restaurant always sounds like a low-key plan until it absolutely isn’t. You tell your friends or family not to make a big deal, and they all nod solemnly like they’ll totally respect your wishes. Next thing you know, you see a line of servers marching toward you with clapping hands, …
Seguir leyendo Server shuts down mom who tried to guilt stranger into sharing her custom birthday cake with her son: ‘He’s a kid, don’t you think it would mean more to him?’

Dad invites 26-year-old daughter to dinner with his 36-year-old girlfriend and her 13-year-old daughter, girlfriend excludes her from sitting with them when they get to the restaurant: ‘My father’s girlfriend told the host, «Table for 2″‘

It doesn’t feel very good to be in a situation where you have a sense that you’re not wanted. Last weekend, I was third-wheeling with two good friends, and the whole time, I had a gut feeling that it probably wasn’t ideal for them to have me there. They weren’t being cruel to me, they …
Seguir leyendo Dad invites 26-year-old daughter to dinner with his 36-year-old girlfriend and her 13-year-old daughter, girlfriend excludes her from sitting with them when they get to the restaurant: ‘My father’s girlfriend told the host, «Table for 2″‘

Friend refuses to split $1,000+ check at a San Francisco birthday dinner after another friend racked up the bill with family-style platters of seafood, meat, and pricey cocktails: ‘We were each expected to pay $150, I had a $23 pasta and a $10 mocktail’

There’s nothing quite like the modern group birthday dinner to remind you that sometimes, friendship is just a subscription fee with cocktails. You step into a swanky San Francisco restaurant for what you hope will be a laid-back evening, but instead walk straight into a Hunger Games of Venmo requests. Before you can even scan …
Seguir leyendo Friend refuses to split $1,000+ check at a San Francisco birthday dinner after another friend racked up the bill with family-style platters of seafood, meat, and pricey cocktails: ‘We were each expected to pay $150, I had a $23 pasta and a $10 mocktail’

17-year-old high schooler is pressured by friends Amanda and Sam to cover a $500 restaurant bill during a weekend trip after Amanda orders half the menu and claims she “forgot her card,” but the responsible teen refuses to foot the bill: ‘My meal was $26’

If you want to test the true strength of a friendship, skip the trust falls and just go to dinner at a fancy restaurant with a group of broke high schoolers. Nothing quite exposes class dynamics, budget delusions, and two-faced freeloading like splitting an astronomical check after everyone has spent the meal pretending to «just …
Seguir leyendo 17-year-old high schooler is pressured by friends Amanda and Sam to cover a $500 restaurant bill during a weekend trip after Amanda orders half the menu and claims she “forgot her card,” but the responsible teen refuses to foot the bill: ‘My meal was $26’

22-year-old man pays for fiancée’s family meal at his uncle’s restaurant, they leave a $1 tip and protest when he refuses to pay in future: ‘A $1 tip is insultingly low’

When a relationship gets serious, one of the trickiest things about it can be surviving the introduction to your significant other’s family. You’ve got to somehow pass the test of acceptability based on standards and values that you may only know basic information about, and on top of that, you may have to put up …
Seguir leyendo 22-year-old man pays for fiancée’s family meal at his uncle’s restaurant, they leave a $1 tip and protest when he refuses to pay in future: ‘A $1 tip is insultingly low’

Restaurant manager brings baby into kitchen while he works, ignores chef requesting the child be removed from the workspace: ‘He jumps on the cook line, baby still attached’

It has long been popular wisdom that unless a job demands it, we should never work with animals or children. There are some professions where this advice is a heck of a lot more important than others, primarily because introducing pets or kids into the situation would be a severe health hazard. Those pesky OSHA …
Seguir leyendo Restaurant manager brings baby into kitchen while he works, ignores chef requesting the child be removed from the workspace: ‘He jumps on the cook line, baby still attached’

Restaurant manager quits after owners propose halving salary from $1800 a week to $900: ‘I have been working there 12 years, I ran their business’

Few major industries are as cutthroat as hospitality can be. It requires punishing hours, a near-superhuman ability to multitask, and a skin thick enough to deal with the delights of the general public at their most entitled. While it is a sector that many workers find themselves in as a stopgap or even a last …
Seguir leyendo Restaurant manager quits after owners propose halving salary from $1800 a week to $900: ‘I have been working there 12 years, I ran their business’