‘You’re seriously going to make people sit outside like they’re in a field? That’s so low-class’: Entitled mom demands daughter cancel her wedding because she wants to have it outside

Everyone is allowed to have the wedding they want to have, within reason. As long as you can afford it, or have help to afford it, what you say goes. You don’t have to bend to convention if you don’t want to. You don’t have to wear a big white dress and invite everyone you’ve …
Seguir leyendo ‘You’re seriously going to make people sit outside like they’re in a field? That’s so low-class’: Entitled mom demands daughter cancel her wedding because she wants to have it outside

Dysfunctional outdoor wedding demands guests pay $2 for water, serves wedding cake without plates or utensils: ‘I watched as people walked around holding dessert in their hands.’

A perfect wedding is something that can be paid for. You can’t always control exactly what your wedding guests do, but if you spend enough money, you can at least control the food being served, the music being played at the reception, and the pastor who is joining you in holy matrimony. If you have …
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Overseas family asks cousin to contribute £150 to wedding she’s not attending, says it’s ‘charity’: ‘I am deeply unmotivated to contribute’

There are lots of great ways to spend your money. You’re probably thinking of some of them right now. You might have bills to pay, rent that’s due, contributions to make to your retirement fund, money set aside for healthcare, and that’s not even the fun stuff. What about date night dinners and new pairs …
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Mother-in-law claims bride ruined her dramatic smoke-machine entrance at her wedding by screaming ‘call 911’ when she saw the smoke: ‘I thought there was a fire or some sort of emergency’

Weddings are all about theatrics. You may be thinking, «I’m not a theatrical person, my wedding was/is going to be normal.» Wrong. All weddings, unless they are simply you going to the courthouse in your regular clothes to sign papers, are theatrical. The very nature of it is like a play. You rent out a …
Seguir leyendo Mother-in-law claims bride ruined her dramatic smoke-machine entrance at her wedding by screaming ‘call 911’ when she saw the smoke: ‘I thought there was a fire or some sort of emergency’

Parents ask 31-year-old daughter to contribute $5K to her younger sister’s wedding fund after they refused to spend a dime on her wedding 2 years earlier: ‘You and your husband were more established financially. Your sister’s still figuring things out.’

Many people’s parents cover at least part of their wedding costs. I’d say weddings and down payments for houses are the most common large-scale financial gifts aging parents are willing to give their adult children, because they’re setting the foundation for a productive adult life. I know that wealthy parents paying for their kids’ dream …
Seguir leyendo Parents ask 31-year-old daughter to contribute $5K to her younger sister’s wedding fund after they refused to spend a dime on her wedding 2 years earlier: ‘You and your husband were more established financially. Your sister’s still figuring things out.’

16-year-old daughter asks parents to take out $35k personal loan to help cover her Italian destination wedding, doesn’t understand why her mom refuses: ‘My husband thinks should help her out’

Destination weddings can be a tricky business. When you think of your dream wedding, it might be in a far-flung locale surrounded by the people you love. But when you think about it a little further, you realize just how expensive this is to accomplish. Not only do you have to pay for the wedding …
Seguir leyendo 16-year-old daughter asks parents to take out $35k personal loan to help cover her Italian destination wedding, doesn’t understand why her mom refuses: ‘My husband thinks should help her out’

Bride insists her wedding guests wear neutrals, throws a fit when they abide her wishes: ‘It looks like everyone is dressed for a funeral’

You can’t always get what you want. But sometimes you do… and you’re still not satisfied. This is one of life’s cruelest lessons. It’s summed up by the phrase «be careful what you wish for.» There are plenty of movies, shows, and books that remind us of this rule. We don’t always know what’s best …
Seguir leyendo Bride insists her wedding guests wear neutrals, throws a fit when they abide her wishes: ‘It looks like everyone is dressed for a funeral’

Entitled bride demands wedding guests only wear beige or gray, best friend refuses to attend because she looks bad in those colors: ‘I look like a ghost in a burlap sack.’

It’s expected that you make some sacrifices for the weddings of those close to you. You’d probably rather use your precious PTO to go on a vacation for yourself instead of spending it traveling to Piedmont, South Dakota, to watch your cousin get hitched, but you use your PTO anyway because you love her.  We’ve …
Seguir leyendo Entitled bride demands wedding guests only wear beige or gray, best friend refuses to attend because she looks bad in those colors: ‘I look like a ghost in a burlap sack.’

‘You’re not going because you can’t afford it’: Woman wants $375 back from 18-person bachelorette trip deposit but insists on finding another way to go

Bachelorette trips have become huge sites for drama. And not just because it’s a clash of personalities during a high-pressure situation. It’s because they’ve gotten so expensive in the last couple of years. People insist on going on big trips to far-flung destinations, which quickly adds up.  Not to mention getting the time off work, …
Seguir leyendo ‘You’re not going because you can’t afford it’: Woman wants $375 back from 18-person bachelorette trip deposit but insists on finding another way to go

Brother insists his 22-year-old girlfriend of 2 months join brother’s wedding photos despite having a new girlfriend every month: ‘He’s barely talking to any of us’

Everyone wants their wedding photos to be perfect. They want to look just how they’d like to look and be surrounded by the people who mean the most to them. It’s an understandable wish. You spend an astronomical amount of money and time on wedding planning and the only way it’s memorialized is through photos …
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