Weddings are supposed to be joyous, once-in-a-lifetime celebrations. But for certain people, they’re just another chance to make the day about themselves. You’re fresh off saying your vows, glowing and surrounded by loved ones, when along comes someone who decides that this moment, your moment, is the perfect time to casually remind you that you don’t matter quite as much as you thought.

Some people simply cannot handle being a supporting character for even a single afternoon. They respond with enthusiasm, show up to dress for the occasion, and then quietly derailyour moment without so much as an attempt to tone down their pettiness. The spotlight, even when it’s clearly not theirs to take, is something they refuse to let go of. And this one particular couple delivered their little act of selfishness with a smile, ensuring their presence and their absence leave an equally sour taste behind.

Speak now or forever hold your peace doesn’t mean say whatever’s on your mind, if it’s a petty little revenge you can save to, lets say, ANY other time.