You know what they say, «secret secrets are no fun unless you share with everyone.» But this is not always a popular opinion. Secrets exist for a reason. If you’re keeping something from someone, you likely have a reason to. Unless you’re just doing it out of fear, which you should avoid doing, you probably have some sort of material reason for keeping some information to yourself. Maybe you want to spare somebody’s feelings, or maybe you want to spare your own. We all have our reasons for keeping some things to ourselves, and that’s not a crime. This is especially understandable in the beginning stages of a romantic relationship. 

Those things have a way of never going how you expect them to. The beginning of a relationship is delicate. You’re still trying to figure out how each other works, and you’re probably saving some aspects of your personality for later on. You don’t want to offend them and risk scaring them away. You also don’t wanna make too much out of something too early and then have to walk it back in front of all your friends. Who hasn’t done that?