This whole situation seems a bit off…

Get engaged to your fiancé, have your first child together, plan to move into her mother’s house to avoid expenses (she doesn’t live there, btw), have an argument with your fiancé, and she goes on, demanding that you can’t move in with her and the baby… 

Relationships can get complicated, but we don’t recommend planning a life with someone with whom you aren’t compatible. We always say, It’s so strange and confusing to see couples who act like they absolutely cannot stand sharing the same airspace as one another, and yet, they remain together. 

Of course, we can understand that there may be a bigger picture: Children involved, mixed finances, or even the absolute fear of facing the truth that you two just no longer work…

But when your partner is genuinely so confused about where they stand with you, post-birth hormones or not, one cannot just sit and wait around for them to make up their minds and decide they want to be together simply because they now need things from you!